I can't help with all your questions but the running group thing is a very annoying bug. What I do to get around it is...select the group, ungroup them, make them run, re-group them. IT's a pain in the ass but it works good.
My comp is similar to yours, a little worse and i have to play on normal units. I can play large, but when I get the whole 20 man armies it slows down so I just play on normal. And the language thing, I have no clue but would assume yes.
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