I dont mean to patronise or demean your plight, Capo, but have you any idea how strong you will emerge from this?

You sometimes meet rare people in life, those with an uncommon strength and dignity, people who you can tell from their eyes and the way they carry themselves, that they've been through it and back out the other side. These people can take whatever shit life can throw at them, and still come up smiling, and greater still, still willing to help others through the same sort of crap.

See it like this: these times can be rare gifts, they can invest your spirit with a strength, wisdom and depth that you just don't find in the majority of shallow, self absorbed people. They can make you proud of yourself in years to come, when you have a strength of humanity that your friends, family, children etc, will admire you for. Take that strength of insight and intelligence that we can see you have already, and let this make you stronger and nobler still.