Tricky Lady: A more radical way is to erase the trigger entirely. I've done it, and it works. Though it is rather...radical.

B1ueBa11: more information of traits for you to add to your family members can be found in its entirety in Your RTW folder\Data\export_descr_character_traits
Also with informations, and triggers of those traits. You may want to check around a bit since it can be edited, providing a kind of "cheat" you may want (erasing the triggers that brings badfarmer, badtaxman, etc, and all the triggers that happens when your governers sit around too long)

For more information about editing visit the RTW Modification forum.

P.S. Your name SCARES me! Is it taken from the evil colorful things that consumes the mind of babies by their shows of endless chanting(songs)? That thing is SCARY!