some are, some aren't, it all depends on how they are made and what is put into them, but if anyone ever says a martini is a girls drink they are off their face, what is a real drink then? bourbon hahaha! bourbon is for bogan dickheads who have less then two braincells to rub together (there is a great difference between bourbon and tennesee whiskey which i like or any other american whiskey) again what do you classify as a cocktail, is a depth charge a cocktail (for those who don't know a depth charge is a shot of dark rum in a pot of beer)
cocktails are definately not girly, what is girly on the other hand is vodka premixes.
thanks,
dizzy