Hmm i'm no pc expert or even close, so i'm not even sure if i follow you guys right.
I can use the same internet connection with 1 ip going from 1 pc to the other pc and join my own games and play with no problem.
I have it setup where my internet connection goes to 1 pc by USB and out by ethernet card to the router to the other pc by a ethernet card.
No idea why it wouldn't work for you...
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