Cant get the total realism mod to work?

[Tocca]

I've installed the new realism mod (5.41) but when i try to start the game it just crashes to desktop. I never reach the meny, it crashes during the loadingscreen.

I have made sure i have a clean RTW with patch 1.2 installed. I made a backup of the data folder before install, and i installed in correct order (first 5.2 then 5.3 then 5.4 then 5.41).

I deleted the new data folder, made a new backup of the old one and tried again (I tried running the original in between, and it worked just fine.), this time i only installed version 5.2 and tried to start the game...
Same thing!


First there's the advertisement video, then comes the long introvideo after this when the loadingscreen comes (with the bar increasing from left to right)
it goes to maybe 10 or 15% then it just clicks and i'm back in windows.

Any ideas? I have none, i've reread the readme's real closely and from what i can tell i'm doing everything by the letter?

I have checked for the map.rwm in the Data\world\maps\campaign\rome_total_realism folder, no such file there...