Tips on how to attract a girl

[Fragony]

Yeah, if you are getting approached, you will not be asking for dating/girl advice on a web-forum.

It does when it is the 50+ hotel-owner storming in in the middle of the night to vaccuum-clean the floor, no kidding. And no.

[Husar]

So we can conclude, Beskar, that sometimes it's easier to go to the ones who want money instead of attention in return for the sex?

[Beskar]

So we can conclude, Beskar, that sometimes it's easier to go to the ones who want money instead of attention in return for the sex?

Hahaha.

Well, for the money one, you need money.

This is all on the "short-term" anyway. Females simply are not attracted the sex-less pampering "nice-guy" routine, because the vast majority of them cannot tell if that means they like you more than just a friend or not as well. This is why females sometimes go for the whole "" routine some guys do.

The only time, they usually go for some one during the "nice-guy" act, is because they want to go straight for that long-term relationship. The vast majority of females (especially younger ones) don't look for that. They look in the short-term.

I put it this way, which do you think is more attractive? A teddy-bear or bar of chocolate? The teddybear might be cute and cuddley, but you don't want "pleasure" from it. The chocolate is bad for you, but gives you "pleasure". In this sense "Girls just want to have fun". So imagine the girl sitting there, and here comes the "teddybear" 'er hi, I really like you, do you want to be more than friends?", the girl goes "aww, little teddy, how cute. I don't see you like that, we are friends.", then you go the bar of chocolate "hi there, I am naughty and I will give you pleasure" the girl goes "oooOoo I want take your wrapper off, Mr. Chocolate".

[Husar]

But the chocolate will melt away during the summer and the birds will eat it!

Another problem is that as soon as a chocolate bar with strawberry flavour comes along she will jump onto that. Well, unless you're just looking for a quickie of course, then that is not a problem but a solution.

[Beskar]

But the chocolate will melt away during the summer and the birds will eat it!

No no, they have their chocolate, then just move onto another chocolate. That teddybear 'nice-guy' is still there, going 'hug me' while they ignore him, because he is in the friend-zone.

Another problem is that as soon as a chocolate bar with strawberry flavour comes along she will jump onto that. Well, unless you're just looking for a quickie of course, then that is not a problem but a solution.

Not really a problem, typically many see short-sightedly.


I put it this way, your average guy just wants sex, the average girl just wants a bit of fun. If you are not in this mantra, you face a situation where you are basically excluded, unless you find a single female some where who isn't one of those "bit of fun". Then because of these other guys who just want "sex" etc, they end up with one of those anyway and get disillusioned.

What happens usually is, the average guy and average girl magically at some point, realise they want something more then settle down. Problem is, the ones excluded obviously don't get that opportunity.



There are other reasons as well. Ever heard of the 10 point scale of attractiveness?

It goes along the lines that two people will go for eachother, as long as they are within 2 points of eachother. So lets say something is a "7" rating, they can reasonably go between a "9" max (not good looking enough for a 10) and a "5" min (below a 5 is too ugly for you), though they will most likely end up with some one at a similar rating.

This is also mixed in with another fact, women generally always go for higher, which means, men usually go for lower. Only times women usually go lower looks-wise is because a man has other factors such as money, etc which changes their own position on the scale due to these factors. So if you are Mr. Nice-guy and you are rated around a 5, lets say you are average. This means, unless you turn into chocolate, you will most likely end up with some one rated as a 3, if you stick to your usual routine.

As you can kind of guess, that cute girl next door? Absolutely no chance. The.. erm... "3 rating" girl down the road? If you can overlook her "3" rating, then thats your choice.

[Husar]

This 8 here will stick to his computer, thankyouverymuch.

Because yes, I usually do go for the long term.

For those interested, here is a video of me.

[A Nerd]

I've heard the 'homlier' girls were better in terms of the ol' in-and-out and all that's associated if you know what I mean. Better to turn a good girl bad than a bad girl good too. Use your chocolate bar and teddy bears as ruses to maneuver around her 'ability at tact' rather than making a blunt statement as to what you intend to do with said gifts.