Tips on how to attract a girl

[Byzantine Prince]

My $0.02:

1. Don't be sycophantic, especially if she's hot. Be polite and charming, but have some respect for yourself.

2. Be confident. Don't doubt yourself, or talk yourself down. Avoid negativity overall (at least in the initial stages). Don't bignote yourself too much either. This comes across very badly.

3. Accurately gauge what is appropriate behaviour for a particular woman. Some guys can get away with inappropriate behaviour and language, but most chicks will add it straight to their sleaze files.

4. Put some effort into the way you look. For some reason, they respect this.

5. Identify what is interesting to her. Don't bend her ear with crap.

6. Be as genuine as possible. Lies usually get exposed at some point.

You are wise beyond your years my friend. Whatever your age.

[PanzerJaeger]

Drive a Land Rover. It makes them think you're sophisticated, yet adventurous.

Plus, all the gadgets really turn them on. One time my street truck was in the shop and I had to drive my offroad truck to the store and when I came out this girl was just staring at my snorkel. She asked what it was for and we got into a conversation about camping and the outdoors and I ended up with her number.. as usual I never followed through though..

Anyway, cars seem to be good ways of attracting attention and getting things started if you can find a venue to display yourself and your car in the same setting.

[Voigtkampf]

Voigt: Ah yes, the old gentleman's reaction to refusal. Works like a charm

Dunno about the number four though. I've seen friends go around a disco doing exactly what you said -- and getting no play. But, then again, his game wasn't that advanced. Learned plenty as the silent observer though.

True. Seen my own comment about my lame comments? There are no good pick-up lines. Forget it. They’ve all been worn out. What’s a pretty girl like you doing in a place like this? Doh. The best pick-up line is “Hi” or “Hello”. My name is… May I join you… Can I get you a drink?

It is the way you say that little stuff.

Guys make a mistake and if they get refused believe that their pick-up line is bad. So, they practice and then they really blow it. Hell, if she is going to shoot you down when you say “hi” to her, forget it, for what reason ever, she is not going for ya, lad. What to do? Carry on!

People that gain self-confidence, calmness and that naturally casual approach and way with women have success. If you are nervous, shy, reserved, insecure, then practice. Talk to women. Hell, I’m one of the few men that know as much about a woman as any editor of a woman’s magazine! I know their general seasons, how their bodies work, what do they like and dislike, why do they group in small packs for toilet, I know what they talk about there, I know everything! As Sun Tsu said:

"If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles.

If you know yourself, but not your enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat.

If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”


So, get to know yourself and your enemy, the women. Oh, never think a woman is something dignified and exalted, angel-like creature. Pah! They are mostly worse then men!

And, contrary to all the people said here, you won’t believe what women are looking at the first. Your “behind”. I kid you not, they really do that! Why? Its not like they are going to take advantage of it once you are in bed!?! Nah, if you figure why they look at your ass, you figured a good deal about women.

What a lame girl, really... playing is fine, but there is a limit. I'm not your ball of yarn, girl

Oh, I let them play with me, but in bed, nowhere else!

[Papewaio]

Think like a magpie / crow... they like bright shiny objects... so do girls.

So if you are confident and well dressed you will do okay.

Not that I was that confident when I asked Wasabi out to movies and a coffee... even less so when she said she couldn't because she was studying for exams...

Anyhow believe in yourself. Talk to the person. Relax and be yourself.

[Shadow]

why do they group in small packs for toilet, I know what they talk about there, I know everything!

So why do they group in small packs & what did they talk about

[Kagemusha]

My pickup line:You want to be my next ex-girlfriend?Allways starts a somekind of conversation.Seriously,just be yourself.If it doesnt work move on.

[edyzmedieval]

My pickup line:

Do you believe in love at first sight?!
If no, do we have to meet again?!

[Kagemusha]

My pickup line:

Do you believe in love at first sight?!
If no, do we have to meet again?!

Thats a good one.

[Laridus Konivaich]

Be an extrovert/confident, as said by many others

[Jammin]

Being yourself is the best advice anyone can give you to attract the opposite sex. Anything else is being a Fraud and not being honest upfront.
Being honest upfront is the most admirable quality that anyone will want in any relationship, and drastically reduces stress and hurt down the road.
So be yourself and be careful who you give your heart to.

[Gawain of Orkeny]

My pickup line:You want to be my next ex-girlfriend?Allways starts a somekind of conversation.Seriously,just be yourself.If it doesnt work move on.

I used to live with this guy who had the best pick up line ever. He would just walk up to girls in the bar and ask if they wanted to fook. I couldnt belkieve it when I saw him say this to some gorgeous girl. She said well thats different and at least your honest and off they went. This guy got lucky almost every night. He said 9 out of 10 times he gets his face slapped but that the 10th time always made it worth the pain.

[edyzmedieval]

I used to live with this guy who had the best pick up line ever. He would just walk up to girls in the bar and ask if they wanted to fook. I couldnt belkieve it when I saw him say this to some gorgeous girl. She said well thats different and at least your honest and off they went. This guy got lucky almost every night. He said 9 out of 10 times he gets his face slapped but that the 10th time always made it worth the pain.

LMAO.....

Indeed, the best....

[Kagemusha]

I used to live with this guy who had the best pick up line ever. He would just walk up to girls in the bar and ask if they wanted to fook. I couldnt belkieve it when I saw him say this to some gorgeous girl. She said well thats different and at least your honest and off they went. This guy got lucky almost every night. He said 9 out of 10 times he gets his face slapped but that the 10th time always made it worth the pain.

True strategian.You dont have to win all the battles in order to win the war.

[swirly_the_toilet_fish]

You must be a walking contradiction. Aggressive but passive, cold but emotional .. uh .. this is making me sick.

[Byzantine Prince]

And, contrary to all the people said here, you won’t believe what women are looking at the first. Your “behind”. I kid you not, they really do that! Why? Its not like they are going to take advantage of it once you are in bed!?! Nah, if you figure why they look at your ass, you figured a good deal about women.

My tip no. 2 was show off your ass IIRC. I can't agree enough with you on this one. I have actually heard girls comment about how nice my ass looked behing my back. It's amazing. I don't know why they care, but they do, that's for sure.

I guess it's the same reason we care about their legs.

[swirly_the_toilet_fish]

My tip no. 2 was show off your ass IIRC. I can't agree enough with you on this one. I have actually heard girls comment about how nice my ass looked behing my back. It's amazing. I don't know why they care, but they do, that's for sure.

I guess it's the same reason we care about their legs.

I'm inclined to agree. When I played football (american) and worked out with the rest of the team I remember our coaching telling some of the phys. ed class "what the hell are you working on your arms for? Women don't look at your arms, they look at your ass." Since I have done nothing but squats, and I am currently very very happily married.

[Voigtkampf]

So why do they group in small packs & what did they talk about

I ain’t sharing the secrets of the trade!

My tip no. 2 was show off your ass IIRC. I can't agree enough with you on this one. I have actually heard girls comment about how nice my ass looked behing my back. It's amazing. I don't know why they care, but they do, that's for sure.

I guess it's the same reason we care about their legs.

"Same reason we care for their legs?"

Let me see… I stroke their legs… Kiss and bite them too…

Damn, no girl ever nibbled on my ass…

[Franconicus]

Teddies, you know! They are a girls best friend!

[TonkaToys]

Saw a programme on speed-dating a couple of nights ago on UK TV. They gave a man and a woman help from scientists that believed they had spotted some of the things that make men attractive to women and vice-versa.
The two assisted people came out with no dates out of 50 (woman) and one date out of 50 (man)! Shows you how accurate the science was!
Anyway, some of the scientific techniques you can try:
1) Don't wear aftershave / cologne, instead wear a concoction of Cucumber and Liquorice. The scientific test for this was to measure how sexually excited a woman became after smelling various things.
2) Look for someone that has the same face shape as you. This was a complete dud, people said they didn't want to date their brother / sister.
3) If a man, emphasize big shoulders and small waist. (If a woman, emphasize breasts, and have a small hip to waist ratio; as that indicates fertility... well duh!)
4) Finally, and this actually worked for men... look tall. That is it... apparently the two tall guys on the speed date got the most votes from the women, and it didn't matter what they said during their three minute conversation!

Now, where are my high heels?

[Ice]

[QUOTE=TonkaToys]4) Finally, and this actually worked for men... look tall. That is it... apparently the two tall guys on the speed date got the most votes from the women, and it didn't matter what they said during their three minute conversation!
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Gah, i hate being short.

[thrashaholic]

Be British (proper accent, not t'Northern or Common innit) and go to America.

Simple as that.

[Big King Sanctaphrax]

Be British (proper accent, not t'Northern or Common innit) and go to America.

Simple as that.

Does that really work? I've always fancied having a crack at it, I must admit.

[BDC]

According to Reuter's, take her out on expensive but financially worthless dates, like for a meal or whatever. Then she will only accept if she's interested. If you buy her gifts then she might just be using you, but as you can't sell on a meal she will probably be genuine if she accepts.

[thrashaholic]

Does that really work? I've always fancied having a crack at it, I must admit.

Of course it works! No-one can resist the alluring charms of a polite well-spoken Briton, especially if you throw in a drop of dry wit and sarcasm into the equation.

I've had several foreign girls crumble at the first sound of my accent, they act shy and look at their feet (in a good way) even when I just say: "pleased to meet you". There seems to be a myth that all British men are charming gentlemen, which I strive to fulfill at every opportunity; alas most are not, but the myth perpetuates and is very useful (not that I try to exploit it in any way, that would be caddish). Unfortunately I don't travel abroad as much as I should or want to, especially considering the state of most British girls

[Big King Sanctaphrax]

That's good. For years at school I was mocked for my accent. Vengeance will taste all the sweeter when it includes lovely American ladies besotted with my dulcid tones!

[xemitg]

Be clean

[edyzmedieval]

That's good. For years at school I was mocked for my accent. Vengeance will taste all the sweeter when it includes lovely American ladies besotted with my dulcid tones!

BKS,

No need for special accent. Your native language will do it(see Celtic tribes)

Fancy giving me some lessons?! I really liked sophisticated stuff

[Silver Rusher]

Hell, I’m one of the few men that know as much about a woman as any editor of a woman’s magazine! I know their general seasons, how their bodies work, what do they like and dislike, why do they group in small packs for toilet, I know what they talk about there, I know everything!

Are you a woman? If not, how do you know all that stuff?

Anyway, I saw a stupid program on channel Five (UK TV) the other night about why you see beautiful women with ugly men. In the end, the only thing those idiots could come up with for a reason was "sweat". So according to them, if your "sweat" smells nice, you get girls.

It was a silly program, written by the sort of person who would likely be editing heat magazine, but other than that I've got nothing.

[Voigtkampf]

Are you a woman? If not, how do you know all that stuff?

Uh, no, I’m not a woman.

How did I learn all that? Years of data gathering, observing the wild in its natural habitat, shopping with them, reading their magazines, listening to them. Yeah, really, listening. You know, you look at her, open your eyes and ears and shut your mouth. Nodding helps. Also, spying on my older cousins helped a lot. Man, the stories I've heard...

[edyzmedieval]

Uh, no, I’m not a woman.

How did I learn all that? Years of data gathering, observing the wild in its natural habitat, shopping with them, reading their magazines, listening to them. Yeah, really, listening. You know, you look at her, open your eyes and ears and shut your mouth. Nodding helps. Also, spying on my older cousins helped a lot. Man, the stories I've heard...

Hwo's about sharing some of them?!