A ten week old fetus is not a person, it feels nothing. Adoption however brings pain and misery. Not always but it leaves a mark on you your whole life.
Are you sure about that. What is it a lizard? Its human and its alive. Thats good enough for me to care about it. Ask any woman who had a misscarriage at this point if that wasnt her baby.

Sure a baby is, but a fetus is not a baby
And a baby is not a fully developed human either.

And you only have no say and only monetary responsibilities if your not pair bonded with the childs mother.
Pair bonded. Is this some new form of marriage? Why should she get the kid and me the expenses?

In reproductive decisions men only have a right to a consultative role. No matter how much we fuss and fume the decision is ultimately the womans and not ours.
Thats the way it is but its doesnt make it right. What ever happened to gender discrimination?