Maybe, like the song says, you'd have to walk in the young woman's shoes, to know what its like to have to choose.

To be part of an angry mob shouting rhetoric at strangers, hateful mean hurtful things, at a time of their deep personal crisis, that's not calling a spade a spade, that's vicious, arrogant, and IMO an indication of being a nutjob.

Callousness is unbecoming, my friend. It doesn't suit you. I know that you have a kind heart.
It would be cruel to shout down a homosexual with aids going into a treatment clinic. I may not agree with his lifestyle, and I may even think that lifestyle contributed to his current condition, but hes in a life threatening situation that he didnt plan for.

However, I really dont see what is cruel about telling a young woman who is not in danger of losing her life, and who clearly has other options, exactly what she is doing.

I cant find any sympathy for a girl who commits such a horrible act simply for her own selfish intentions.

Who is the real victim here, who needs our sympathy and compassion? In my opinion, the girl getting shouted at has the better end of the deal - at least she'll walk out of that clinic alive.