Quote Originally Posted by Duke of Gloucester
The way in which the South fought, with great skill, valour and courage, together with outstanding leadership shown by the likes of Stonewall Jackson and R E Lee are things that those who identify with the South can be justly proud of. Unfortunately the cause for which they fought was reprehensible. The southerners who fought under the flag probably were not concerned for state's rights. After all, the fugative slave act was a serious infringement of this, but part of the way of life which they sought to defend was the right of one human being to own another.

This means there is a problem with the flag. I might fly it to celabrate bravery, brilliance and greatness. Others may fly it because they are racists. By joining with them, I am supporting their views even if I don't mean to.
The Duke is pretty well on the mark here. Where I differ is that if I choose to fly it it doesn't mean I've joined with the racists. Unfortunately, it might appear that way to some and I have to keep that perception in mind. Afterall there are many racists who will hide behind the excuse of "Southern heritage" because they really want to use it as a racist symbol.

If is fine to have pride in Southern heritage or celebrate a bit of a rebellious/independent streak. However, it is equally important to accept that in this case it carries along some negative connotations, even if that is not the part one embraces. I'm not in favor of censorship, but I do accept some *reasonable* limitations of symbols that are used for insult and hate.