Im a very slow player. It takes me time to move, mobilize and plan my advances. But when I do move, I have it all thought out. Be it a tricky navy landing, plots assassinations, ambushes or what not. When I do hit the opponent I am sure to win.

I can easily use the first 20+ turns just building my one or two settlements up and ready, while forging alliances, trade rights and other diplomacy.
Also I love to micromanage my characters, trade retinues, sending them off to special missions etc.