Originally Posted by Byzantine Prince
Ah then just learn to relax a little more. I used to be under a lot of stress when I was in the Army. At work my boss is surprised how calm I am when everything is going wrong with the production, and that I am able to get things back on track without stressing out the associates, or myself.
On situational stress - I just ask myself one simple question and it keeps me from going into a stress mode - which normally triggers a situational depression for me. Just find yourself that question that helps you see prespective about what is stressing you out about your situation - which I am assuming then leads to your depression.
My question is a hold over from my military days - is any decision I make today going to hurt or cause someone to get hurt? And frankly 99.9 percent of the time I have found in my civilian life that the answer is No - and then stress begins to role off.
Now that does not prevent me from suffering some situational depression - but it keeps it from becoming an overwelming thing.
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