Why does every other thread in the Backroom have to turn nasty recently? Speaking not as a mod (I have no responsibilities for the Backroom) but as a patron, I think we really need to raise the standard here, people. Is it really necessary to start off a rebuttal by saying what you are rebutting is a "pile of excrement",
Seamus? That's just effectively ensuring the person you are trying to rebutt will not engage with you on the substance of what you are saying. And personally, I think it is a pretty cheap way of trying to get around the "foul language" rule.
Dave's post in the same vein was not even redeemed by having any substance.
Adrian, your "smilie" to
Redleg was just fighting fire with fire - and arguably targeting the wrong poster.
There was a time when I could read these threads without my blood boiling, maybe even post and get a decent exchange with
Redleg,
Adrian or whoever. This thread was informative, until people started being discourteous. I'd like to enter into an exchange with
Menedil and
El Slapper on the substance of this thread, but right now the bad vibes I'm getting from this thread are literally making me queasy and is putting me off attempting to do so. Similar things have been going on in the Iranian photo thread, the godless Brit thread where I might have liked to have posted but the tone of some of the posts just lowered the quality of the threads to the point where I was happier to see them die. It's just ugly and we should do better.
With these kind of issues we are likely to find the substance of what some others say ugly, even if they express themselves perfectly civilly and respectfully. We owe it to ourselves to try to respond to it in a polite civilised way if any. If we try to debate it in the ugly style displayed here, we may as well just be blowing raspberries at each other.
Maybe I am just being delusional, but I think we used to be better than this. I know we can do better.

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