Yeah, the line 'Yeah, I had a wine cooler before we had sex so you completely violated my body!' is pretty much hogwash. Most everyone, male or female, has had a drink and done something stupid in their life. For men it doesn't seem to be that big of a deal.

Maybe if women weren't told so often that rape is around every single corner of their life and if they ever get raped they'll be mentally destroyed forever, they wouldn't over react to this sort of thing so often.

On topic, it's a shame this kid now has this criminal charge hanging over his head. Of course what he did was stupid, but doing stupid things as a teenager is part of growing up and learning.