
Originally Posted by
Gregoshi
ShambleS ,your approach obviously isn't working yet it seems you are unwilling to change your ways or means in order to make it work. Redleg has given you some good advice if you wish to pursue the communications route, but you have discounted it from the get-go. If the Way is blocked, find another Way instead of just by repeating the same failed methods. Situations such as yours come up 2-3 times a year and too often they follow the same patterns - so much so I wonder if there is a manual for it somewhere on the internet. The gist of it is that in these cases, it is the patron that must change and they must realize that it is they that must change. If they don't recognize they did anything wrong, they are bound to repeat the same mistake again. That is most likely why you aren't getting a reply to your PMs. To your credit, you at least appear to recognize half your mistake.
As I recall, what started you down the road you are on is not what happened to you, but what didn't happen to others - a double standard to your way of thinking. After all you have been through, you are still on that road pointing out where others have done things that you were punished for. It is not a road that will lead you to Org Nirvana. What you really need to do is be concerned for your own behaviour only. Forget about what other patrons are doing. Follow the forum rules and be a good patron. If another patron breaks a rule, whether they are punished or not, be satisfied to know that at least you don't do that. Just because others break a rule doesn't make it okay to break it. Understand that and be happy you are being a good patron.
Please take this advice in the spirit in which it is offered
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