alright them goofball, why don't you put your money where your mouth is, find a single woman who desperately wants a child and donate sperm to her, be sure that she knows your adress for child maintenance payments. then go and have a seperate life having to support this child for the rest of your life as well as having your own family (if you want one) im sure you would understand this guys hesitence. Think about it 20 years down the line when you have a son or daughter that knows you didn't want to raise them, maybee he wants a clean brake from a relationship that obviously didn't work.

This woman has plenty of option to have children, we spend millions on donar egg and sperm treatments when there are abandoned children all over the world, we are over populated as it is!