Well I've had a couple of hours to rest up and I've been a lot more mentally at ease about it so far. First off, both Abortion and/or adoption are out, we'd already decided on that. The marriage option is on the table, but I certainly don't want to make her feel that it is forced and of course, because of our situation I will have to probably pay child-support until we actually decide to legally marry (by the time the Child is born and if we're still living together we'll technically be in a non-contract marriage) which means we can claim each other and of course the child as dependents for taxes.
She really didn't have any college plans that I know of anyway, and quite frankly hates her job and has wanted to quit for some time. Since I was a younger lad, I've always been quite shrewed with money, and because of my fathers death a little while ago (which actually upsets me that if all goes well, and the Child is born healthy and breathing he/she will never have had the priviledge to meet him) I was willed over a small fortune, so it's not like I'm completely broke, but I want to keep as much of that cash intact as I can for their benefit later on in life.
Well, I guess I'll try to keep you as informed as I can. Cheers!!!!