Good luck and congratulations (in an "Oops! Surprise! Let's make the best of it" kind of way) Wakizashi. From what you told us, you and your girlfriend are going about this in the right way and in a very mature manner. I'm sure the two of you will work it out for the best of all. They say the best judge of ones character is by how they respond to adversity. Your's is clearly one to admire.