I'm glad to hear abortion is out of the question.

That is a human being you have there. Adoption is fine, but abortion? That's a person dude. So good choice to the both of you.

As a father-to-be myself, I can never again say that abortion is acceptable unless very very very serious birth defects are present.

That said, ya. You are pretty screwed. Don't marry her. Dating for six months? You'll regret it. She's just a lay at six months. You won't even begin to really know each for at least another 2 years.

Trust me. I got married at 20.

(and we are still married, many years later)

Luckily we shared similar views in politics, role realtionships, and religion. It would have been bad otherwise.

I would say skip marriage for now and get to know each other. You can still have the benefits of father hood without the emotional attachment to the mother.

It is better to start off divorced than end up divorced. ya know?