Results 1 to 23 of 23

Thread: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

  1. #1
    One of the Undutchables Member The Stranger's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2004
    Location
    Nowhere...
    Posts
    11,757

    Default How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    I think that parents (or the one that takes care of the child) usually have the most influence on the child's political and religious viewings, actually the child in whole. after that comes family and friends, and of the third place rolemodels and events. Ofcourse things change later on but the fundament is still there.

    But my question to you is how much influence did you parents have on you.
    People that disagree with me can also debate here.

    We do not sow.

  2. #2
    Shark in training Member Keba's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2005
    Location
    Colonia Iuliae Pietas Pola
    Posts
    604

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    That entirely depends on how the parents' approach the task.

    My personal experience is one of non-interference. My father is a judge and thus very rarely speaks of politics ... most of the influence in that field was done by friends during the rather long debates we've had (and still do, occasionally). Religion was a different matter, my parents' simply didn't care. They themselves are atheists, but they decided to let me choose, when I wished, and they'd support me in whatever choice I made. Naturally, since I'm at least third-generation (don't know farther than that) atheist, I really didn't care much about religion, since most of the people I hung out with didn't either, and I had no real motivation for that.

    So, all in all, I agree with you ... parents come first, after that family and friends. Dunno much about role-models, but I certainly agree on the events, although I would put them pretty much near the top, as they tend to make a larger impact.

  3. #3
    mostly harmless Member B-Wing's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2006
    Location
    on the Streets of Rage!
    Posts
    1,070

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    Its impossible to trully know just how much one's current views are influenced by their parent(s), but in my case, there does not appear to be much correlation. Neither my mother or father were strictly aligned to any political party and they didn't discuss politics much around me, if they discussed it at all. I'm not sure about my Mom, but in presidential elections Dad would vote for whichever candidate he thought would do the most good (or least bad) for the country, regardless of their party.

    I myself am libertarian. I would actually prefer anarchy, but I realize I have a rather romanticized view of it and to be safe I stick with minimized government. I suppose the fact that my parents never tried to instill loyalty to any popular political party or emphasize their importance may have made it easier for me to come to my current views, but that's all the "influence" I can see.

  4. #4
    One of the Undutchables Member The Stranger's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2004
    Location
    Nowhere...
    Posts
    11,757

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    I meant not only parties but also if you are left or right. ill give you an extreme example which hold events and parents.

    you are very young and your up late watching the news with your parents. on news they show a group of skinheads parading on a square doing the hitler greet. You ask your parents who they are and your parents will answer to their own political and maybe emotional view.

    If your parents (this is extreme example) were fascists/nazis, they would say something like; They are fighters for a better cause, they want to rid the world of lesser people and are generally good young men who are misunderstood etc.

    If you were jew they would say that they were nazi pigs that our people a whole lot of wrong and did not deserve to live.

    they could also say: they are the recent followers of a man who did a whole lot of nasty things in the past. they think the world will be better of without certain people and therefore they protest.

    you are a small child and if your parents told the story good enough youll take it as it is. and when some other child talks about nazis, you will probably say what your parents have said. and ofcourse things can always change later on. the fundament has been paved

    We do not sow.

  5. #5
    Member Member scotchedpommes's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2002
    Location
    Scotland
    Posts
    1,550

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    I would think it's quite possible to find out how much a parent's views may or
    may not influence that of the offspring. I would be surprised if numerous studies
    haven't been conducted up to now.

    As for my own experience, I would say my parents played a very minimal role, if
    any at all. I had been aware of where their political sympathies lay for years, but
    they never actively tried to influence my own or turn me away from any
    particular viewpoint. [I would suppose that environment can be a critical factor,
    but of course any views on development tend to come back to whether you put
    more weight behind the nature or nurture arguments.]

    If you want to extend the discussion to religion and influence on those kinds of
    beliefs, again their role was very much the passive one. I could believe what
    ever I chose to, and to say that was their only input. Growing up with atheists
    it was an easy choice for me.


    As for your point regarding sentiments towards certain groups, well I would say
    influence would be clear, and varies from case to case. Any answers given would
    more than likely remain ingrained.
    it's the **** that happens while you're waiting for moments that never come

  6. #6
    Join the ICLADOLLABOJADALLA! Member IrishArmenian's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2006
    Location
    Writing the book, every day...
    Posts
    1,986

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    Well, they instilled religion in me. That was, is and will be #1 with me. Politics, hmm... beside that my father was my big political influence. He told me never (with few ekseptions) to be militant, as he was former IRA and said "Looking back, those were the worst days of my life..". Oh yes and despite being religious, my family believed in seperation of Church and State which at first I didn't understand, but now I do. My dad had no exact political leanings as he was and is not an Armenian citizen. He just told me that people needed freedom- but not freedom to hurt others.

    "Half of your brain is that of a ten year old and the other half is that of a ten year old that chainsmokes and drinks his liver dead!" --Hagop Beegan

  7. #7
    Chieftain of the Pudding Race Member Evil_Maniac From Mars's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2005
    Posts
    6,407

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    Almost none. I'm a Monarchist and right leaning, whereas my parents are both left-wing.

    As for religion, my family had some influence, though not much. My mother's side and father's side are Catholic and Lutheran respectively, and both sides are fairly religious. However, my parents believe, but hardly worship and do not participate in Lent, for example, or any religious holidays except Easter and Christmas, and only attend Church on Christmas, unless my Oma or I ask them to come along.

  8. #8

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    Hmmmm

    My parents dont really keep track on politics, yet my mother is quite facist in her beliefs, which may of had some influence over my facist self.
    "How do you tell a communist? Well, it's someone who reads Marx and Lenin. And how do you tell an anti-Communist? It's someone who understands Marx and Lenin." -Ronald Reagan

    "It's somewhat ironic that closing spam threads increases my postcount"
    -Ser Clegane

  9. #9
    Darkside Medic Senior Member rory_20_uk's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2003
    Location
    Taplow, UK
    Posts
    8,690
    Blog Entries
    1

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    my parents views are different from each other, and I was more aware of my mother's than my father's. it was only later that I found that my views were similar to that of my father, just I am slightly more polarised than they are.

    my views were also heavily shaped by how rocky their lives have been by playing by the rules and trying to do the best thing in their job. After a good look at this I've decided that this is not the way forward, and I'm going to try a different approach to matters.

    An enemy that wishes to die for their country is the best sort to face - you both have the same aim in mind.
    Science flies you to the moon, religion flies you into buildings.
    "If you can't trust the local kleptocrat whom you installed by force and prop up with billions of annual dollars, who can you trust?" Lemur
    If you're not a liberal when you're 25, you have no heart. If you're not a conservative by the time you're 35, you have no brain.
    The best argument against democracy is a five minute talk with the average voter. Winston Churchill

  10. #10
    One of the Undutchables Member The Stranger's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2004
    Location
    Nowhere...
    Posts
    11,757

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    i havent really developed a political stance though i guess im a left wing. my parents specially my dad have played a role though not very big in that. I think the most crucial role was played by my school, which is made up by mostly rightwing spoiled rich kids with even worse parents. after several collisions and debates i have developed distaste for right political views... and ofcourse some problems with racism kept my from becoming extreme right though i doubt ill ever become extreme left.

    for religion, my mom is christian and goes to church each week, but apart from some christian events thats it. my dad is atheist and so is about the rest of our family, my mom tried to convince me going to church but failed. I guess the modern day view about religion and its importance is the major factor why i havent become religious, plus that i kinda dislike religions for the problems they cause. That has nothing to do with God or Allah or Shiva or Boedha but with Bible and the Koran and other manmade rules which you have to follow

    We do not sow.

  11. #11

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    hardly.
    my parents would talk but it doesnt affect me.

  12. #12
    American since 2012 Senior Member AntiochusIII's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2005
    Location
    Lalaland
    Posts
    3,125

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    Unlikely. Considering how we're all first-generation immigrants to a whole new nation, and the former state really had no "Left-and-Right" politics but simply "Which Crook Do You Want For Your Master!?" one. I think they still have a caricature of a long-running political crisis over there on whether or not the corrupt, power-hungry, monopolizing prime minister ought to be thrown off the country. Naturally, I expect negative; corruption and nepotism reign supreme.

    Besides, I think I discovered my bleeding heart anti-American traitorous pinko cowardly pathetic Atheistic evolutionist prophetic false liberalism on my own, and that I don't even think my parents care about politics that much, if at all.

  13. #13
    ............... Member Scurvy's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2005
    Location
    London
    Posts
    1,489

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    My parents dont do politics --> and i dont either, so there must be some influence

  14. #14
    Speaker of Truth Senior Member Moros's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2005
    Location
    Belgium
    Posts
    13,469

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    It's not only if they talk about politics that influence you. It's also the moral they teach you. Parents teach they're children what is good and what is wrong. Tough most of it is the same the differences in emphizing certain thing or other differences will have it's affect. If I have a child and I alwas say that thr republicans are good. But if I teach my child morale values more comparable to that of the democrats. The Child is more likly to vote Democrat when it's grown up. And morale can be formed and change by sudden events or sometimes even small un important little things.

    My parents vote mostly CD&V, Christian party, while I'll rather Vote socialist. Why? They taught me that everybody should be treated equal. And that's what I believe. I know communism is impossible and that you can't threat everybody completly the same. But I do think the situation can be improved for poeple less fortunate then ourselves.

  15. #15
    One of the Undutchables Member The Stranger's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2004
    Location
    Nowhere...
    Posts
    11,757

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    i guess wereon the same level here ;)

    We do not sow.

  16. #16
    Jillian & Allison's Daddy Senior Member Don Corleone's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2004
    Location
    Athens, GA
    Posts
    7,588

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    My parents had a HUGE influence on me being politically aware, though not so much on any position one way or the other. My father is a military industrial Republican (makes sense, as he's a bigwig for General Dynamics and has built submarines his whole life) who's actually pretty socially liberal. My mother was a typical Irish-Catholic-Boston Democrat for most of my youth and young adult years but switched over to the right side of the street sometime around the Clinton years. She's really big on personal accountability issues and Clinton disgusted her (I think she got more prudish as she got older). My sister is a dyed-in-the-wool hippy. Worse than Tachi or Idaho. I'm something of a Libertarian and a defecit hawk. Not exactly the homogeny you think of in most families.

    BUT, one area that my parents were pivotal in my politcal opinions was having one in the first place. As long as I can remember, we were expected to read the newspaper and watch the McNeil Lehrher newshour. When subjects came up at the dinner table, the only wrong answer was 'no opinion'. They drilled it into us that it was incredibly irresponsible not to try to keep up on local, state reigonal, national and international issues and at least have some frame of reference to guide ourselves by.
    "A man who doesn't spend time with his family can never be a real man."
    Don Vito Corleone: The Godfather, Part 1.

    "Then wait for them and swear to God in heaven that if they spew that bull to you or your family again you will cave there heads in with a sledgehammer"
    Strike for the South

  17. #17
    Old Town Road Senior Member Strike For The South's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2005
    Location
    Between Louis' sheets
    Posts
    10,369

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    My mom is pretty live and let live but pretty adament about defense. While my dad hates pacisfism and brown people but supports welfare. My parents dont really tell me much however.
    There, but for the grace of God, goes John Bradford

    My aim, then, was to whip the rebels, to humble their pride, to follow them to their inmost recesses, and make them fear and dread us. Fear is the beginning of wisdom.

    I am tired and sick of war. Its glory is all moonshine. It is only those who have neither fired a shot nor heard the shrieks and groans of the wounded who cry aloud for blood, for vengeance, for desolation.

  18. #18
    The very model of a modern Moderator Xiahou's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2002
    Location
    in the cloud.
    Posts
    9,007

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    My parents are old-fashioned union democrats and are socially conservative. I went through most of my childhood believing that Reagan was too dumb to tie his shoes. It was sometime in high school that I actually started paying enough attention to current events to realize that Republicans actually had some good ideas. Their religious values and respect for tradition stuck pretty well- but we disagree on what role the government should have.
    "Don't believe everything you read online."
    -Abraham Lincoln

  19. #19
    Dux Nova Scotia Member lars573's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2004
    Location
    Halifax NewScotland Canada
    Posts
    4,114

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    As I've said before my parents are orange flag waving socialists. Big on redistribution of wealth and personal freedom. But for very different reasons. My mom really beleives that the government should provide for all it's people, and care for them if nessisary. My dad just wants to stick it to rich people, cause they have lots of money and he don't. In a lot of ways my dad is an idiot. Prefers to not inform himself of anything important that goes on in the world around him, and unfortunately my sister has that propensity too. My brother believes in anarchy. For those of you who know how I can be, he's worse. I vote like my parents, socialist in provincial and federal elections. For civics I pick a name at random who isn't the incumbent. Seems kind of stupid but the campagin budgets (near nill, even for the mayor) for municipal level government hear means you never hear the candidate message at all.
    If you havin' skyrim problems I feel bad for you son.. I dodged 99 arrows but my knee took one.

    VENI, VIDI, NATES CALCE CONCIDI

    I came, I saw, I kicked ass

  20. #20
    Standing Up For Rationality Senior Member Ronin's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2000
    Location
    Lisbon,Portugal
    Posts
    4,952

    Cool Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    Well let´s see....

    My father is a communist and an atheist, my mother is a socialist and a non-practicing catolic.

    They sent me for a catolic school for 4 years...so I don´t think my father was trying to push his atheist views on me.....I came to them all by myself thank you...

    other than that....I´d say I´m much more a "middle of the road" person politically than either of them....my father regularly votes for the communist party which is something I would never do out of principle...my mother normally votes socialist.....I also have voted socialist on ocasion...but I tend to vote more on the people than in any given party.......

    My parents have also went on vacations to Cuba twice and I refused to go with them on general principal.....like hell I´m going to bring my tourist euros to a country that is a dictatorship.

    if we start discussing politics things can get pretty heated....specially with my father that is a bit (ok more than a bit) of an anti-american.... if these discussions involve the american foreign policy they usually end up with my father telling me that I "agree with everything that the USA does" errr...moi? (man....I must introduce him to this forum were I am the american-hater commie pinko! )....talks with my mother are a lot calmer but she has also from time to time given her opinion that I´m too "right-wing" on some subjects for her liking....


    so there you go.....right-wing USA fanboy at home and USA-Hater commie pinko in this board.....what is afoot here?
    A double personality? or are we all talking in diferent languages at each other?
    Last edited by Ronin; 08-25-2006 at 08:45.
    "If given the choice to be the shepherd or the sheep... be the wolf"
    -Josh Homme
    "That's the difference between me and the rest of the world! Happiness isn't good enough for me! I demand euphoria!"
    - Calvin

  21. #21
    Jillian & Allison's Daddy Senior Member Don Corleone's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2004
    Location
    Athens, GA
    Posts
    7,588

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    Quote Originally Posted by Ronin

    if we start discussing politics things can get pretty heated....specially with my father that is a bit (ok more than a bit) of an anti-american.... if these discussions involve the american foreign policy they usually end up with my father telling me that I "agree with everything that the USA does" errr...moi? (man....I must introduce him to this forum were I am the american-hater commie pinko! )....talks with my mother are a lot calmer but she has also from time to time given her opinion that I´m too "right-wing" on some subjects for her liking....


    so there you go.....right-wing USA fanboy at home and USA-Hater commie pinko in this board.....what is afoot here?
    A double personality? or are we all talking in diferent languages at each other?
    My Dad's foreign policy mirrors DA's and much like DA did in another thread, he frequently accueses me of being a dove, chicken, soft on terrorism, pro-Chinese... you name it. I think it's the perspective of the viewer.

    So, this peace-loving, terrorist supporting hippy salutes you, you right-wing, USA fanboy.
    "A man who doesn't spend time with his family can never be a real man."
    Don Vito Corleone: The Godfather, Part 1.

    "Then wait for them and swear to God in heaven that if they spew that bull to you or your family again you will cave there heads in with a sledgehammer"
    Strike for the South

  22. #22
    Yesdachi swallowed by Jaguar! Member yesdachi's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2005
    Location
    LA, CA, USA
    Posts
    2,454

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    The people who raised me, parents, grand parents, aunts, uncles, neighbors, etc. were all part of who I am today. I am different than who I was when I was young but the core values are still there and I think that is the case for most. An excellent reason to surround our children with positive people that think the way you want them to think (hopefully with free, open minds not too clouded with either left or right BS).
    Peace in Europe will never stay, because I play Medieval II Total War every day. ~YesDachi

  23. #23
    One of the Undutchables Member The Stranger's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2004
    Location
    Nowhere...
    Posts
    11,757

    Default Re: How much influence did you parents have on your Political view

    Quote Originally Posted by Strike For The South
    My mom is pretty live and let live but pretty adament about defense. While my dad hates pacisfism and brown people but supports welfare. My parents dont really tell me much however.
    theyre black man, theyre black. Gotta Love Texas!!!

    We do not sow.

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
Single Sign On provided by vBSSO