Advice

**LeftEyeNine** · 10-20-2006, 12:46

Here comes Date Doc, examines the situation and prescribes his favorite natural remedy: Forget.

You should take it before meals until it feels done.Time does heal.

**Lt Nevermind** · 10-20-2006, 13:51

time, time, time... even scientifically proven. After 3 months of no contact whatsoever with her you're healed, worked with me the last time

with astonishing accuracy. And god help you if you're forced to be in contact with her

**Avicenna** · 10-20-2006, 17:46

Originally Posted by Lt Nevermind

time, time, time... even scientifically proven. After 3 months of no contact whatsoever with her you're healed, worked with me the last time

with astonishing accuracy. And god help you if you're forced to be in contact with her

really? why 3 months?

**CrossLOPER** · 10-20-2006, 18:11

For some reason, three months always works. However, right when you think you're finally rid of her, she just pops up again. That can really mess you up.

**The Stranger** · 10-20-2006, 18:23

well... ive helped many friends with this... and ive been helped once... the best advice is been given. you could try to win her over one more time, id be glad to help... but im no expert on getting over those things...

**Andres** · 10-20-2006, 18:40

It happened to me once. 2 or 3 months without contact and you're cured.

As stated before: time is the best cure for this sort of things.

**CrossLOPER** · 10-20-2006, 18:45

Originally Posted by The Stranger

you could try to win her over one more time

That, my friend, would fall into the category of something that requires dirty tricks.

**Somebody Else** · 10-20-2006, 18:56

Simply recognise that there's two kinds of 'love' for another person. One is more sensual than not, the other is more platonic. If you can separate those in your mind, then you'll be free to see that this girl is happy and be happy for her, that's a kind of love that's lasting - and very hard to get rid of if it exists. The other kind - once separate - fades much more readily - and is easily supplanted by someone else coming on the scene.

As I said, the trick is to separate, well, essentially, love and lust. Love her, fool around with other people. It's all about attitude.

**The Stranger** · 10-21-2006, 17:56

Originally Posted by CrossLOPER

That, my friend, would fall into the category of something that requires dirty tricks.

not neccesary... you could just ask her out, get to know her better (if you dont know her good enough already), but if she really is happy with that friend and you dont know for sure if she is better of with you, you mustnt do it.

**Ice** · 10-20-2006, 19:08

Originally Posted by The Stranger

well... ive helped many friends with this... and ive been helped once... the best advice is been given. you could try to win her over one more time, id be glad to help... but im no expert on getting over those things...

I've tried, but to no avail. I should have been more specific.

Anyway, i just went to the gym and lifted and did crutches till i could hardly move. Then i went to the dining hall and ate a really healthy lunch. I think I found my escape from this.

**Don Corleone** · 10-20-2006, 19:44

Originally Posted by Ice

I've tried, but to no avail. I should have been more specific.

Anyway, i just went to the gym and lifted and did crutches till i could hardly move. Then i went to the dining hall and ate a really healthy lunch. I think I found my escape from this.

Two words: Gentlemen's Club. Nothing will make you forget Suzie-What's-her-name faster then a couple of hours and 50 well spent dollars in your local establishment of exotic dance. I'm serious about this.

If you have moral objections to that, well, there is the old adage about getting back up on the horse. Start doing anything/everything you can do to meet as many women as you can: grocery stores, gyms, churches, political causes, bars, you name it. Tell all your buddies to cough up their black books (at least the ones that are currently attached). You gotta go for broke. There is a woman out there that will make you forget the one you're interested in, you just gotta go find her, mon amis.

**Csargo** · 10-20-2006, 19:46

I feel for you man. I'm sure everyone in there life has had to deal with something like this your not alone. I don't really have anything to add just go with what everyone else has said. Alot of time with no contact with the person is the best I think. That's what worked for me.