Thanks people

Being too large sounds about right at the moment, I must be close to the 60% and I'm basically just going easy on everyone else because I'm waiting to get some Lancers (incidentally, is it just me or does it take forever to get the buildings you need for them?!).

But marriage, like spying and assassination, is something I've never really got to grips with in the 3 campaigns I've played, so I thought I'd ask...