as grimmy said,

you need to take your character out of an army/city then select them

and get the command line up and type

give_trait this GoodAssassin 5

give_ancillary this femme_fatale

the first letters of the words in traits are in capitals ie Good+Spy GoodSpy

in ancillarys its all in lower case,the word "this" forces the trait/ancillary onto the selected character.

good traits i use are GoodCommander 5
GoodSpy 5
GoodAssassin 5
GoodMerchant 5
StrongFaith 4

ancillarys femme_fatale(assassin)
explosives(assassin)

im also messing around to see which ancillarys can be moved from one to the other and only Tutor and Bard can be moved so far.


regards

Moose