The greatest love you'll have ever found, will be when your not looking for it. Thats my experience anyways. I've been on... god at least 20 dates, just hoping that somewhere in the shuffle would be the right person. Most of them were right for me in some degree, but somehow none of the relationships, once engaged didn't feel right. The ones that really love you, will not make an effort to point out your flaws, they don't expect you to give them the world, and certainly they'll forgive you if you make a fumble on a date. A decent person would give you the benefit of the doubt, and not pass judgement even if you do make a mistake, because we all have at one point or another, and even getting drunk on a date isn't the most gregious of errors.