Quote Originally Posted by Marshal Murat
Argh, I hate my problem. Conundrum?


I like a girl, and we enjoy talking about stuff (politics, my third love after military history, I digress) making snide jokes about said stuff, and I enjoy talking to her, don't know about visa versa. I feel really bad about helping her with homework, just because I've got the concept of 'under your own steam'.
However, the massive stumbling block is that she already has a boyfriend. They like each other (duh), and they seem to enjoy being together.

Now, I have a split idea on the situation. One side says 'go all in' and ask her to cheat on aforementioned boyfriend, go to movies, and let life roll on. The other says to just give up, and to stop helping her with her homework.
Been in almost that exact situation, if you want to see the worst case scenario look back a few pages at my confession.

Be honest with her, but tell her that you can't ask her to cheat. She'll either ditch the boyfriend or she won't if she doesn't make some space and go find someone else.