This thread is for the broken hearted.

[Caius]

dude

my sympathies

long distance relationship = life of denial & self flaggelation = endless torment of living hell = sucks

I know.

What can I do?

[Patriarch of Constantinople]

I know.

What can I do?

Does Argentina have women?

[Caius]

Does Argentina have women?

Argentinian women are beauty.

[Yun Dog]

normally I would say these things are doomed (long dist rel)

but Im a very cynical old man

not knowing you or her I wont address this at your relationship but relationships in general

in general

1 year is tough for a married couple although not impossible

I have seen a friend do 1 year from his GF but they were the exception and I guess they always had a plan to get together and get married once his study was finished.

normally I would say for bf/gf - 3 months and the cracks will start to show (depending on how long you knew each other before you parted)

arguments over the phone.
paranoia about what the other person doing/feeling.
mixed communications/messages.
living your life on hold.
feeling estranged from your partner.


Im a big fan for living in the moment and enjoying the here and now, if you find each other again one day - fantastic - if not well you wont have spent ? long holding a candle for the other, which when you do finally get back together may not work - because youve both grown apart.

and if you are holding a flame - just make sure its not in vain.

hey that rhymes - Im a poet