Quote Originally Posted by katank
It doesn't really matter, does it? If he becomes an heir, you can get a wife for him. If he doesn't, then he's just like any other general and his sons are like any other general. Adoptions fill out your family tree nicely and you won't need to worry about losing the game due to your family dying out.
Exactly! Well put simply rely on adoptions, if you do get offered marige then take it but really there isnt a great need to marry off your 2nd in line