Quote Originally Posted by Tribesman
Rubbish , the first thing I did after my honeymoon was bugger off working for 6 months, no harm to the relationship at all . Just like there was no harm doing it before the marriage and there has been no harm doing it since .
The only thing that cuts down on it now is the kids .
lol, I've known kids to keep a lot of couples together. While admittedly, children take a toll on a relationship, their affect is overstated. You didn't have much going if having some kids could ruin it all for you.

I, for a while, entertained two girlfriends. One in my homestate, and the other (originally from my homestate) who moved to Texas. I can tell you, it didn't last long. I moved across the State from my surviving girlfriend, and that didn't last long either. Girls don't loke being left alone. If they don't have company, they will seek it. (not saying your gf will go sleeping around behind your back, but that if she isn't getting what she needs from a relationship: she'll end it.) Poor Vuk is now all alone and sad because of the same mistake. :(
Again, my advice:
1. Take her with you.
2. Stay with her.

The third option really doesn't work.