
Originally Posted by
Bijo
Eh-- I didn't take offense, Odin. Of course I knew what you meant, I was just being smartass and bored at the time :) (and even logical :P)
Here in Holland for example on schools it's most likely everybody has to speak Dutch, but there are always people who don't. It depends though sometimes: for instance my college is kind of international, so there you get to hear all kinds of languages.
In workplaces, just speak Dutch. Though it depends... what if it's some kind of place where lots of Turkish people work. Of course they'd speak Turkish, though I'd never really been to a Turkish place like that.
I have the sense here in Holland there's still this-- negative feeling that people have towards immigrants / foreigners / etc. Let's just say it's easier to be criticized when you're not white Dutch in here. They think something like "Oh, it's one of those foreigners again. Doesn't know the language, this, that, whatever."
There was this situation one time when I was doing internship at a music school. When just being new and sitting in the teachers room having a smoke, I heard this one woman suddenly talking about Indonesian people going unnnoticed because they are so integrated, while I was in the room, while many of them were looking kind of scared or something. Well, guess what: I'm basically from there, though born and raised in Holland. The way she said it you could hear some kind of fear or insecurity in her voice and a sense of being serious and avoidant. Do I need to go on? I think you get the point.
That's just one example though. But I find it amusing in a way that many people here in the country who are white and Dutch can be so stupid and primitive in their minds, irrational and plain silly. Instead of treating me like a Dutch person, I was treated or approached differently due to my origins. And it doesn't matter if you're intelligent, have good qualities, or maybe are basically BETTER than them or any such traits, etc.: you are not white and you are not pure Dutch, therefore you receive different treatment.
It's as simple as that. Hell, I even got a Dutch name, have always known perfect Dutch (while many white Dutch people don't), know about 3,5 languages or more, and when I appear before anybody, let's say an application talk, some are actually surprised to see somebody they didn't imagine in their heads. It's like you were the essence of integration, but they don't want you to be integrated. They just don't want you.
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