I've always been a "power player", meaning I master game rather fast. This was rather irritating with Medieval 2, as game is so big, complex and bug filled.
Now however, I tried RPing the game, and focusing on all details. This of course gave a much slower game, and every turn takes some time.
However, playing like this proved to be quite rewarding. Game UI is better too, if you care mainly about what happens to your emediate neighbours.
If you react fast to alliances, who wars who, excommunications and so on, and send diplomats, you can very often secure borders with diplomacy.
And if you cant, you will see the problems coming ahed of time.
It's also damn fun!
Like now, I have a Cardinal called "the warmonger". He was in the capital when my youngest son hit age 16. At the same time a crusade was declared to Jerusalem, and the cardinal talked the 16 year old son into joining it. So the cardinal and the now crusading 16 year old "born to command" set off to Jerusalem with some knights and huscarles (playing danes).
This crusade will be fun to follow, but is probably doomed given the distance between denmark and jerusalem.
My king and best general is off in russia, having captured all port provinces and now going for Moscow.
I have Hamburg as only border to the nordic countries, but somehow I also got Prague after some diplomacy with HRE.
Prague I use as intelligence-gathering main city, pumping out diplomats, spys, assassins...
all in all, a slow but VERY FUN game... Much more rewarding than blitzing through the game in 70 turns.
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