Yes theres an option to change pixel shaders (I dunno about you but nVidia control panel can force pixel shaders too). 12 gigs sounds about right.
As to advantages or disadvanges... ouch you just let the cat outta the bag
(This is basicly including mods btw... I've only played m2tw mods)
MTW:
-Better music
-Faster yet reasonably detailed gameplay
-Religion works far better imo
-Sea and trade works better
-Combat feels far more tactical especially with hiding and forests
-Has a very effeciant feel... does what it does best... IMO this is a classic although m2tw will probably not be.
M2tw:
-Graphics
-Better AI
-More complicated (not necassarily a good thing in some instances)
-Larger community (suffice as to say)
-Mods
-Pickup lines (chicks dig it)
-Much more scope if you play a mod with lots of factions
-Longer campaigns (maybe not necassarily in vanilla)
-People will actually read your AARs
Can't comment on kingdoms (yet....)
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