Some people are going to carry much of the load at certain times, and others at other times - don't get caught up with worrying about titles - and don't ignore members' advice. Compromise and listening (and then acting) to everyone on the team's opinion on matters is essential if you want the team to stick together. There is going to be some arguing about things, but the more people listen to each other and reach a middle ground the further the mod will go. Titles or positions in EB don't mean zilch if everyone else or at least a very clear majority isn't behind the decisions a director or FC makes, because people will get mad and leave or poison the well. We almost never have an internal poll where it is a very close decision and we just go with whatever got 51% of the vote - if it's that problematic it's better to look at it again where more people will agree. We have had probably the biggest team for three years and only two or three people have outright left after getting upset about something and told us. A few others have just faded away for sure after they didn't like something, and plenty of others have left because modding or RTW just lost their interest, but there have been zero splits and no time when more than one person left because of something.