Quote Originally Posted by Budwise
The funny thing is, I am socially acceptible. Unlike a lot of computer people I actually try to enjoy life but money restrictions has made me cut back a lot on that. Their is a girl at work that really does like me and I did ask her out for a future date and she said yes. Shes overweight but no previous boyfriends or any baggage of any type so thats a plus. I told her I wanted to be friends first but wanted more later due to not wanting to hurt her due to rebound or this Lien crap sorts out. I am living proof after loosing a hundred pounds that weight is easy to lose, an exhusband (Lien again) or a new fling is not.
Your response is again centered around someone else your persuing. Not only that your trying to add value to her with the no previous boyfriends etc.

What i would like to see is a post about what makes Budwise happy, what is he doing for himself, excluding females from the equation.