As my father taught me, life is about responsibility, and answering FOR yourself, not to yourself.

First, God. With all He has done for me, who am I to put Him in the backseat.

Second, family (I don't agree with lumping friends/family together. Yes, you can choose some very, very close friends to become family, part of your pack if you will, but then they would be family).

Self should always be last on the list.