The most damaging thing to any culture is a lack of direction and national identity, multicuturalism is a self-deying prophecy. You can't ask newcommers to integrate into something you don't even know what it is in the first place. You raise expectations you can't meet, a succesful multicultural society can only exist of people keep a respectable distance and don't try enforce eachother values on the others. But you have to know what these values are, otherwise you may be unintentionally intruding. And that is why multicultists disgust me to no end, they give newcommers the idea that every aspect of a culture is debatable, and the most religious among them deny the existance of a culture and national identity entirely. A boat needs crew and a captain, and the captain needs a map otherwise it's just a big nothing drifting on the sea. I think newcommers are confused most of all, they don't know what we expect from them. A human being will take the room another human being gives him, and there is such a thing such as personal space. Everybody has a personal space, but if you don't know what someone's personal space is if there is nobody to tell you, and when you crossed the line it's already too late or recovery will take a lot of time. Newcommers are encouraged by multicultists to 'fight' for their place, doing the work for the fundamentalistic multicultist, and suffer the backlash when they invaded personal space. They are being used most of all.