Sorry to hear that man, it definitely can be sometimes. Don't get too bent up over it, being depressed just makes it worse. Call up some of your best mates and take a road trip or something or go camping or something to get your mind off of it.
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Sorry to hear that man, it definitely can be sometimes. Don't get too bent up over it, being depressed just makes it worse. Call up some of your best mates and take a road trip or something or go camping or something to get your mind off of it.
"No one said it was gonna be easy! If it was, everyone would do it..that's who you know who really wants it."
All us men suffer in equal parts, it's our lot in life, and no man goes without a broken heart or a lost love. Like holding your dog as he takes his last breath and dies in your arms, it's a rite of passage. Unavoidable. And honestly, I can't imagine life without that depth of feeling.-Bierut
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Keep your chin up dude. There are plenty more women out there, and I'm sure at least one of them will treat you better.
#Hillary4prism
BD:TW
Some piously affirm: "The truth is such and such. I know! I see!"
And hold that everything depends upon having the “right” religion.
But when one really knows, one has no need of religion. - Mahavyuha Sutra
Freedom necessarily involves risk. - Alan Watts
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We still love you here Inca, and I'm sure I speak for everyone when I say we are sorry to hear this.
Rest in Peace TosaInu, the Org will be your legacy
Originally Posted by Leon Blum - For All Mankind
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Have a hug.
Ja mata, TosaInu. You will forever be remembered.
Proud
Been to:
Swords Made of Letters - 1938. The war is looming in France - and Alexandre Reythier does not have much time left to protect his country. A novel set before the war.
A Painted Shield of Honour - 1313. Templar Knights in France are in grave danger. Can they be saved?
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It's the end of your relationship but not the end of the world, keep that in mind, there's also no valley without mountains.
"Topic is tired and needs a nap." - Tosa Inu
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Ahh, the broken hearts are flocking to the Frontroom for friendship in times of distress. And we're here for ya buddy.
Have a seat, we'll bring you a beer and a sandwich. We can't fix anything, but at least we can let you know you're neither alone, nor without hope.
All us men suffer in equal parts, it's our lot in life, and no man goes without a broken heart or a lost love. Like holding your dog as he takes his last breath and dies in your arms, it's a rite of passage. Unavoidable. And honestly, I can't imagine life without that depth of feeling.
Unto each good man a good dog
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^^Words of wisdom^^ with which I agree.
It seems like the end of the world - it's supposed to feel that way; it means you're alive and a fully-functioning male human being. If you felt nothing, you'd be on the road to becoming a sociopath.
There will be other disappointments and pain down the road, with women, work, children, and so on. This episode is teaching you how to handle them without just rolling over and sucking your thumb in a fetal position, or lying to yourself that it doesn't hurt and you don't care. Both those are reactions of children - a man faces his pain, embraces it, learns from it, and moves on... just like you're doing.
So: you have my empathy today (because i/we have been there & done that). But more importantly, you have my hearty handshake and "Welcome to the World of Men".
And a beer. Anytime.
Be well. Do good. Keep in touch.
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