Depressed

[edyzmedieval]

And heavily. I feel so bad, that nothing is going on for me at the moment. I have a bad cold momentarily, and recently I got a 4 out of 7 in history test. (mind you, it's a bad mark) And I've been spewing a lot of mean comments lately.

Any help you can give?

[Craterus]

Concentrate on things that make you happy.
Like the weather, it's just starting to get good.

[Husar]

Friends, good people like here on the org can make you feel better.
Alternatively an immersive game, if you really get into a gameworld, it can make you forget lots of things.

[Beirut]

Have a cup of tea. Be mellow. And take comfort in the knowledge that someone you dislike is probably suffering more than you are at the moment.

[ELITEofWARMANGINGERYBREADMEN88]

Friends, good people like here on the org can make you feel better.
Alternatively an immersive game, if you really get into a gameworld, it can make you forget lots of things.

Argeed.

Spend as much time at .org as you can and Eat Cashews and Milk

[Moros]

I just read your other "*****" and I can understand why you feel the way you do. I can't really understand them. Now I see it's more than just that. However don't feel sad, a nice freindly guy like you, even in bad moments. I know that all the frontroomers agree that your that guy. And I'm certain a lot of your real life freinds think the same. And with so many people behind you, you shouldn't fear. You should, like everyone should, smile. You have more reasons too, than you might think.


(Language - Beirut)

Edit: Sorry Beirut. I forgot to use them Asterisks.

[CountArach]

I agree with Moros, you have to be of the guys with the best intentions on this forum. If we were to take a poll, I am sure that everyone would agree with that.

[Caius]

Just study more
j/k
Just go out, relax from school.

[LittleGrizzly]

just need to chill out and have some fun the lows make the highs all the better

[Gregoshi]

Cheer up edyz, you know what they say...

[Boyar Son]

drink beer (the only solution)

but what happens when your drunk is the only con to this pro solution.



seriously, if u can consume alcohol, but not too much.

[Beefy187]

Go pick a fight on strong looking dude and get bashed up..

Thats what my dad told me to do when I was depressed.

Try something new and diffrent I suppose. Try break out of ordinary things and do something wierd (Try Shouting Haka, Dancing Butou, Spining and jumping around your back yard.Make sure you put your full effort in though)

If none of that works.. Watch a FMP fummofu (anime)

[pevergreen]

And take comfort in the knowledge that someone you dislike is probably suffering more than you are at the moment.

So true. Find a video on youtube that makes you laugh, watch it a lot

[CountArach]

drink beer (the only solution)

but what happens when your drunk is the only con to this pro solution.



seriously, if u can consume alcohol, but not too much.

Bad idea.

[edyzmedieval]

The reasons are not doing quite well as I hoped to, as the change of educational systems has turned me with the bum to the sun and the face to the ground. My average is only 5.2 out of 7 (yes, that is quite bad for my standards) for the first marking period. And I got a bad mark at history just after I came back from vacation, to start the next marking period. (this week).

Plus other personal issues. Plus, I'm in love with someone.

The alternance makes me crumble. I have to fight with myself first...

[woad&fangs]

My advice is to find something to take your mind off of being depressed. The more you think about it the worse it gets(at least that is the case with me).

Also, can we be of any help with your love life?

[Lorenzo_H]

Be happy because you aren't alone. I have at least 6 major exams tommorrow which I don't know the material for!

[Moros]

The reasons are not doing quite well as I hoped to, as the change of educational systems has turned me with the bum to the sun and the face to the ground. My average is only 5.2 out of 7 (yes, that is quite bad for my standards) for the first marking period. And I got a bad mark at history just after I came back from vacation, to start the next marking period. (this week).

Plus other personal issues. Plus, I'm in love with someone.

The alternance makes me crumble. I have to fight with myself first...

To quote yourself:

This calls for drastic measures!!

[Ramses II CP]

Exercise. Long and slow is best, running or biking a long distance. You'll get the endorphins and the associated benefits of physical activity, plus it'll make you tired enough to sleep well and worry free for a night. It's amazing how much a good night's sleep can help.

[edyzmedieval]

It's been going on for the past week. I think one of the causes was seeing my parents during the vacation, and now I have to wait another 2 months to see them again.

[ELITEofWARMANGINGERYBREADMEN88]

It's been going on for the past week. I think one of the causes was seeing my parents during the vacation, and now I have to wait another 2 months to see them again.

Why they send you to boarding school anyhow?

[Rhyfelwyr]

If you can at your school, just get absorbed in a PC game. Like when alcoholics get drunk to forget about their problems, sitting like a brain-dead moron in front of a screen works just as well - you're just 100% in the game.

But doing this too often can cause other problems, hence my other thread here.

Is it boarding school thats causing your problems anyway? Presumably the point in going there is for a good education, but if its making your marks worse there's not much point in going.

[edyzmedieval]

Actually that thing with the marks worse - it was the first marking period, to adapt myself. I expected some bad grades, but not that bad.

They sent me to a boarding school for better education, which I 100% agree that this solution has been wonderful. I do lots of different stuff which I was unable to do back at home. The only problem is the fact that I am away from home. First month wasn't hard, but as it goes on, it gets harder and harder. I just have to relent and get on, because I like it very much here, apart from the huge distance from home.

My dad said - "You like it but you dont."

[Caius]

Like when alcoholics get drunk to forget about their problems, sitting like a brain-dead moron in front of a screen works just as well - you're just 100% in the game.

I do this all the time. Your mind doesnt work. Play some FIFA games you have, and win with your favourite team.

[Craterus]

Or the latest NBA game you have. I started a new Dynasty Mode recently as the Kings, fantasy draft and all that stuff. Worked out pretty well and it's good for taking my mind off things. Like homework.

[Rhyfelwyr]

I do this all the time. Your mind doesnt work. Play some FIFA games you have, and win with your favourite team.

I think we all have mental problems here. Inca who I'm quoting has a thread here about how bad things are going for him, I've got a thread going to give tips on how to bury my head in a PC for longer, and I'm writing all this in a thread entitled "Depressed".

Welcome to the tavern!

[woad&fangs]

Not to mention the Aussie drama playing out in my Ideas for A First Date thread.

[Moros]

My dad said - "You like it but you dont."

Your father has discovered a whole new kind of logic, hasn't he?

[Beefy187]

So this is more of homesick rather then depression is it?

Try getting fully in to school activities with your friend. Make your self at home. Write your boarding life on blog or something and make sure you stay connected with your family.

And yea... Check out our Aussie drama on the ideas of first date thread.. and laugh at us fools

[Fragony]

People say so quikly that they are depressed when they are feeling a little down. Good friend of mine had a depression, no fun at all took him years to recover, lose use of the word kinda annoys me, it's a terrible thing.