I haven't played a Hellenic faction that has Hierosolyma, but I have taken it as the Hai, the Sabeans and Sauromatae. Since the Hai and Saba can recruit Jewish Spearmen, I repair or let the temple be as a sign of goodwill. Also, since the temple gives a nice 10% law bonus (at least for who I played as) it can cut down on corruption.

When I destroy a religious wonder (usually one lacking in benefits,) I try to use the proceeds to build temples to my own gods, (usually to the evilest sounding one ). You could consider "destroying" a religious wonder as claiming the relics inside as your own (or just moving them somewhere else.)