Dating a Japanese Girl

**Husar** · 02-01-2008, 09:51

My personal opinion is that when you are Mr. Niceguy and don't want to be Mr. Niceguy(which I actually think is a bad idea, but if you really want...) then you have to change yourself, not act on some sort of recipe that isn't really you because then I'd always suspect something you're not prepared for to happen and that's when you fail because you're missing a recipe for that situation.

Thus wishing you good luck might actually be appropriate here.

**Peasant Phill** · 02-01-2008, 10:57

I fully agree with proletariat. Surprise her, possibly by chosing something that she didn't know was so great (doesn't have to be a cuisine). That wow-effect is just the thing you need to get her in the right mood for a great date.

**Husar** · 02-01-2008, 11:05

Or she was right and she'll hate it.

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**Peasant Phill** · 02-01-2008, 11:23

But Italian is also widely known.

Chose something like Greek, Mexican or African, ...

Of course you have to make sure that it's up to standard. And of course that the girl is open for that particular new experience (without spoiling the surprise).