Relationship advice.

[pevergreen]

Title has nothing to do with thread.

Posts come from "Having a Good Day" thread:

I've had an odd day.

GF's friend confessed she wants to have sex with me. She just wants be to leave the girlfriend so she can do it.

As per the friend, having a talk with her now:

anna, affection effection and infection are completly different things, ill always love you louise, friends forever says:
i cant get you out of my head, i woke up this morning at 3.15
anna, affection effection and infection are completly different things, ill always love you louise, friends forever says:
and i was thinking of you


Ummm...I decided to tell the GF about it. I dont know how she is going to react. Apparently they are going shopping together on Sunday though.

EDIT:

anna, affection effection and infection are completly different things, ill always love you louise, friends forever says:
i think im actually falling for you

Wow new information:

W i t h e v e r y k i s s a n d e v e r y h u g Y o u m a k e m e f a l l i n l o v e says:
i think your cheeting on me with anna.



Wow. Unexpected.

W i t h e v e r y k i s s a n d e v e r y h u g Y o u m a k e m e f a l l i n l o v e says:
anna told me and you know what i really want to believe that shes lieing to me but i dont know anymore
I am the Fresh Prince of Bel-Air says:
well...she is
I am the Fresh Prince of Bel-Air says:
i cant do much more than say shes lying and i love you.
W i t h e v e r y k i s s a n d e v e r y h u g Y o u m a k e m e f a l l i n l o v e says:
how can i believe that shes my friend i just dont see why she would say something like that



Any ideas what to do?

@ Mods: Sorry for filling this forum up with worthless stuff that could be kept to somewhere else

[Evil_Maniac From Mars]

Telling her what her friend said and why she is saying what she is now is probably the best route. Otherwise, her friend will keep lying and this may just get even worse. If your girlfriend cares about you, she'll understand you're telling the truth.

[Big King Sanctaphrax]

Hang on...so your GF's friend has told your GF that you're cheating on her with her, even though you aren't?

Wow. What a bunny boiler. I'd break off all contact with this psycho, and just continue telling your girlfriend the truth.

I edited the thread title.

[Veho Nex]

Back to sinans women are thread?

[Shahed]

I didn't read the other thread, but:

Did you actually do something with her ?
How long have they been friends ?
How long have you been with your girl ?

Just today a chick, who's a friend of a good female friend, called me (as I was expecting) and told me straight up that all it would take for me to sleep with her is that I don't tell our mutual friend and we do it away from town, so nobody else sees us together. I played along, and then refused. Why ? Because it's not the first time 2 chicks have tested me like that. "Check if he'll sleep with you and turn his back on me." My own personal reason for refusing is that I'd rather keep my very very good female friend (who obviously have her own sights on me) right where she is, in my friend zone. She knows I don't want sex from her, I like her as a friend. Not saying that is what IS happening here, just thought it's worth mentioning.

[Beirut]

Because it's not the first time 2 chicks have tested me like that. "Check if he'll sleep with you and turn his back on me."

I play it safe. From Day One I told Mrs. Beirut that I want to sleep with every woman I've ever met, including her sister, her best friend, and the waitress at that restaurant we went to on our first date. Preferably all at once.

Mrs. Beirut treats me like the pig that I am. Total honesty, no surprises. The basis of a steady relationship.

[pevergreen]

I didn't read the other thread, but:

Did you actually do something with her ?
How long have they been friends ?
How long have you been with your girl ?

No. I dont know, I think 18 months. I have known the friend for about 10 years. (Went to school with her until year 5, then met her again last year) and ive been just under 4 months with the gf.

''Look at the wall. You see that rectangular thing on it with a window and a handle? It`s called a door. It`s used when you want to leave. Now either stay because you want to or get out because you want to, but don`t stand in the middle of the doorway blabbering on about this *******.''

i like it. I think the gf is over it though.

Thanks guys.

[Beirut]

Any ideas what to do?

Yes.

It might not be your best bet, but when I was having a problem with my three-women-ago woman, I gave her The Speech.

''Look at the wall. You see that rectangular thing on it with a window and a handle? It`s called a door. It`s used when you want to leave. Now either stay because you want to or get out because you want to, but don`t stand in the middle of the doorway blabbering on about this *******.''

Mind you, you should only say something like that if you're prepared for either eventuality.

(In case you`re curious, she stayed.)

[SwordsMaster]

Yes.

It might not be your best bet, but when I was having a problem with my three-women-ago woman, I gave her The Speech.

''Look at the wall. You see that rectangular thing on it with a window and a handle? It`s called a door. It`s used when you want to leave. Now either stay because you want to or get out because you want to, but don`t stand in the middle of the doorway blabbering on about this *******.''

Mind you, you should only say something like that if you're prepared for either eventuality.

(In case you`re curious, she stayed.)

Amen to that. This is generally good advice anyway. Only ever offer anyone choices if you're ready for all outcomes.

That being said, I had women shout "I hate you" and then drag me on to the bed and do unspeakable things to me. And then afterwards tell me she hates me again....

Womenz...

[Shahed]

Excellent.
That right there is an attraction switch: the willingness to walk away.

[LeftEyeNine]

Excellent.
That right there is an attraction switch: the willingness to walk away.

"The runner gets chased" we call it

[Mouzafphaerre]

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We also say " isteyen yakın durur" but that's barely relevant.
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[Beirut]

That being said, I had women shout "I hate you" and then drag me on to the bed and do unspeakable things to me. And then afterwards tell me she hates me again....

Sweet!

I like the ''women'' part, plural. I've certainly had women tell me they hate me, but they have never, as a group, laid siege to my fragile self afterwards.

Must be the surfboard.

[SwordsMaster]

Sweet!

I like the ''women'' part, plural. I've certainly had women tell me they hate me, but they have never, as a group, laid siege to my fragile self afterwards.

Must be the surfboard.

Hehe. The plural makes it sound too spectacular I think. I must clarify there weren't plural women there simultaneously, but rather 2 separate incidents of this, similar in execution, different in circumstancial circumstances.

Don't tell Beirut I secretly envy his axe.