Hi Guys !
Hope you a great evening ! I sure did (maybe more about that later).
So as some of you are aware I've been heavy in the dating scene and I'm learning a hell of a lot about women, much more than I possibly ever could have otherwise.
Some guys are approaching me in bars and clubs and trying to befriend me to use what I know. I have absolutely no problem at all with teaching (what little) I know. However a couple of weeks ago I went to Brussels, and walked into a cafe on the main square. Saw a few babes, went straight in, had a blast with them. I took the number of the girl I found most attractive, physically emotionally and intelectually and moved over to an empty table (that was to see if she'll come and join me). As I sat down this young man, about 22, clean shaved baby face (guy's never been in a fight, lives with parents, well off), nice clothes but typical average nice guy outfit, with a little hint of bad boy (cowboy boots real low key, military-ish jacket which doesn't fit him at all, typical short hair gelled up, highstreet blue shirt). He asked me what I just did, and I told him: I got myself a date. Why ? She your girl ? he said no, apologised for asking, and said he was impressed with how I just walked up to the girls him and his friends had been eyeing all night. Well I told him, you shouldn't have been sitting there eyeing should you ? I felt like a fight was coming, when the chick I was hitting on came over and joined me at the table. The guy wanted to leave but I told her I'll get back to her in a few minutes. I don't shy from young wimps. The guy said he wanted me to show him how I did it. I asked him to sit down and ordered a beer for both of us.
Anyway... too much detail so long story short. He wants a girl that has a boyfriend who studies about 2 hours drive away from her. He seemed all right at first but when he said this I felt uneasy. He told me the whole story and I know exactly what to do to get him the girl. I offered to come over to his university and hand her to him, provided he show me around campus, so I can get some dates of my own. This was bait too, to see if he has any values at all. From the story he told me, it's obvious he can get the girl easy. Now check this, the guy says he is a virgin. And I believe him because he just acts it. He's far from a man yet, very far.
So, I just carried on the conversation getting to know as much as I could about him. Then my chick came back, I told him to wait for me, he went back to his friends. After another 30 minutes with the girl, her friends wanted to leave (since they were just sitting there watching me make out with her). Anyway, we set up a low key coffee meet for next week and she left. I got back to the young guy and offered him a drive home. Got to know a bit more about him on the way. he was almost desperate to see me in action again, telling me about all kinds of joints we could go to, together. He had also studied seduction and was able to name some of the techniques I had used.
He's ok but his obsession with having his first time to be another man's woman is getting to me. He doesn't know anything about their relationship, what is 100% CLEAR is that she will cheat on her guy. I can tell this with absolute certainty from what he has told me. He wants me to help him get better with women, wants to go out with me this weekend and I "instruct" him on how to pick up women. But I feel he's a bad guy, the kind of guy who, when he has power will abuse it. If I show him what I know I cannot be sure that he will not use it to harm others, but I cannot know for sure because he's such a baby, you can't really tell.
What would you guys do ? Should I help him ?
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