Hello, Marcus_Gerald.

Yes, most Total War games can seem overwhelming in the beginning until experience is gained. Well, just choose a game and try to enjoy it little by little. Find little things to enjoy in the game every time you play. Find something good to feel. I think it's good to do this in the context of the game so as to not try to escape from the situation: it's not as ugly as it may seem! Just prepare for every moment in a positive and more focused manner. Don't care about time; it's all about finding your own happy way.

Regards