First time...

**The Stranger** · 08-25-2008, 13:21

Originally Posted by Fragony

Don't know, most of my friends were 12/13 at their first time, but at that age I was too occupied with Starwars.

edit, add a little tip for the anxious, let the lady go on top and do the work, can't screw up that way. Well you are screwing up of course but you get it.

not when she is still a virgin, it does hurt alot for many girls the first time.

**LittleGrizzly** · 08-25-2008, 13:30

One thing I will always remember is my first kiss, well my attempt at a kiss. I was so scared back then, but now when I look back all I can do is laugh.

I was nervous the first time i had sex but my first kiss was far more nerve racking, i think by the time i had sex i basically knew what i was doing, whereas when it came to my first kiss its was touch lips, insert tongue... ok can't usually see whats happening inside the mouths on this bit on the movies... just mimic the girl back....

Edit, TBH with my first time i was glad to get it over and done with, not so much get the sex over with but to get rid of my virginity and my nerves, it as after my first time i started to relax and enjoy it...

**The Stranger** · 08-25-2008, 13:49

i was so young I cant barely remember my first kiss... I only know who it was with

**Fragony** · 08-25-2008, 13:54

Originally Posted by The Stranger

not when she is still a virgin, it does hurt alot for many girls the first time.

Well I only had one virgin and I was one myselve then, but it will hurt any woman no matter how many miles she got on the counter if you just shove it up cold. If you let her go on top you can let her take the lead and you are less likely to be the subject of redicule when it's a girls-only night. Hunt at the local horse stable if you are unsure they have been sufficiently tenderised by saddle-duty.

**The Stranger** · 08-25-2008, 14:08

Originally Posted by Fragony

Well I only had one virgin and I was one myselve then, but it will hurt any woman no matter how many miles she got on the counter if you just shove it up cold. If you let her go on top you can let her take the lead and you are less likely to be the subject of redicule when it's a girls-only night. Hunt at the local horse stable if you are unsure they have been sufficiently tenderised by saddle-duty.

ah but you make a mistake here babe, YOU will ALWAYS be the SUBJECT of RIDICULE on a GIRLS night, but you are also the subject of adoration... untill you break up ofcourse, then you are either the devil or the loser, depending on who desides to end it...

**Fragony** · 08-25-2008, 14:23

Originally Posted by The Stranger

ah but you make a mistake here babe, YOU will ALWAYS be the SUBJECT of RIDICULE on a GIRLS night, but you are also the subject of adoration... untill you break up ofcourse, then you are either the devil or the loser, depending on who desides to end it...

So young so wise, just remember, Bokito ergo sum

**The Stranger** · 08-25-2008, 14:26

hihi :P *makes a lot of monkey sounds and pounds his chest*

(about the on top thing, you are just one lazy dutch bastard :P)

**Decker** · 08-25-2008, 19:05

Heh, nice story Sarathos. Sounds like you made the right decision.

Tho as for being a sex addict and never having sex...I think it's your hormones going animalistic on you... look at it this way, at least you don't have to worry about not being into having sex when you're married or whatever imho. You'll always be "wanting" it in a sense so you'll always be having a good sex life if you get hitched. That's how I look at it anyways so there's nothing to sweat about when ya get older

hopefully anyways

**Che Roriniho** · 09-02-2008, 09:05

I would like to declare to all that I brought a girl to climax before my first kiss. I have effectively won at life.
Wish she returned the favour though...

**Incongruous** · 09-02-2008, 09:33

Nope, never done it, it's a shame really, I am told that many girls whom I like are always coming onto me at parties (those bottles of vodka mean nothing!) but I'm too much of an Englishmen (read into this what you like!) to take the step.

**Fragony** · 09-02-2008, 09:35

When it comes to english women, obviously a case of not being drunk enough.

**Incongruous** · 09-02-2008, 09:39

HAHA!
I have the better of you!
Since I am living in colonial exile at the moment.
Though I must say, I have met one English girl out here and she was the most charming girl I have ever met, no that does not mean she was good of personality but lost of physical attractiveness!