On Conquest!

**Hooahguy** · 11-16-2008, 21:11

ok, since were talking about relationships, i have problems of my own:

ive liked this girl for a long time. the problem is, i told her i liked her before really became friends. as of now, talking to her is really awkward. were still friends, but we dont talk much. i talk to all the other girls in my grade a lot. shes the only girl who i just cant seem to get into conversation with. i still like her, but idk what to do....

**Strike For The South** · 11-16-2008, 21:21

Originally Posted by hooahguy

ok, since were talking about relationships, i have problems of my own:

ive liked this girl for a long time. the problem is, i told her i liked her before really became friends. as of now, talking to her is really awkward. were still friends, but we dont talk much. i talk to all the other girls in my grade a lot. shes the only girl who i just cant seem to get into conversation with. i still like her, but idk what to do....

move on

**Hooahguy** · 11-16-2008, 21:25

tried that and failed....

**Strike For The South** · 11-16-2008, 21:33

Originally Posted by Strike For The South

move on

....

**Alexanderofmacedon** · 11-16-2008, 23:13

I'd agree with SFTS, but if you really can't move on at all, there is no use in sitting by. If it's obvious the friendship is too awkward, you might as well ask once more. If you get a yes, great, if you get a no, you finally have closure. Don't talk to her anymore unless she talks to you.(in other words dont be mean, but just dont mess around if you dont have to).

best of luck

**Kekvit Irae** · 11-17-2008, 00:01

Once you've hit the awkward zone, there's no hope. It seems to me like she's trying to avoid the subject without offending you.
As the others have said, move on.

**Hooahguy** · 11-17-2008, 00:58

thats the problem. i cant move on. ive tried many, many times. every time, whenever i ..... think of girls...... i think of her. my mind wont let me think of anyone else.
i dont just think shes hot, i like her for who she is as a person...
god, im screwed....

**KarlXII** · 11-17-2008, 01:12

Hate to be blunt, but get over it. Move on. Plenty of fish in the sea, as the French say.

**Strike For The South** · 11-17-2008, 01:46

Originally Posted by hooahguy

thats the problem. i cant move on. ive tried many, many times. every time, whenever i ..... think of girls...... i think of her. my mind wont let me think of anyone else.
i dont just think shes hot, i like her for who she is as a person...
god, im screwed....

No you're not just remember there is always someone better!

**Centurio Nixalsverdrus** · 11-17-2008, 22:51

King Henry:
When sitting behind her, tap on her shoulder and ask her a study related question. The first impression is incredibly important, so make sure to show your chocolate side. Some days later, approach her "by pure coincidence", smile at her and start talking. Or just smile and talk to her on the first occasion... Afterwards, ask her en passant if she likes to go to the canteen with you.

Originally Posted by hooahguy

thats the problem. i cant move on. ive tried many, many times. every time, whenever i ..... think of girls...... i think of her. my mind wont let me think of anyone else.
i dont just think shes hot, i like her for who she is as a person...
god, im screwed....

Totally know your situation. For some odd reason, girls don't seem to appreciate it very much if you like her as a person. Girls almost always like the

-chaps. So my advice would be, be an

and ignore her. If you are lucky, some weeks later she will offer you a cookie or something like that (Really happened to me). Than do not freak out but stay reserved albeit friendly. Slowly. You cannot force anything.