Met a Foreign Girl, Need Advice

[Cowhead418]

I just want to thank everyone in this thread for their advice. Things have been going great with her, and we are now currently dating. After the park date I took her and Vladimir to the pool with my brother and sister, and it was a great time. She looks mighty fine in a bathing suit too. Though I only met her last Monday, we've already been on five dates, and I'm taking her to the White Sox (baseball) game tomorrow, so she can get a great American experience. Even though we don't always understand each other perfectly, we have great chemistry and it's clear that we both really dig each other. She even said that due to our Russian connection and the fact that we share the same birthday, she believes that it was "destiny" that we met. My overall love life to this point has been pretty uninspiring, but this girl is absolutely amazing and I think I may have hit the jackpot here.

[Louis VI the Fat]

That's so sweet.



don't tell her just yet you take your dating advice from a computer games website...

[Hooahguy]

Congrats! It definitely seems like this will go much better than any of my past relationships!

[edyzmedieval]

don't tell her just yet you take your dating advice from a computer games website...

Louis, if I ever meet you, the beer is on me because of this line.



Congrats Cowhead!

[Centurio Nixalsverdrus]

There is a grain of truth in there...

Eastern Europe is macho central. The guys act too tough, the women's skirts are all too short.



The other thing is, East European women are a bit more serious, mature, about relationships than West Europeans / Americans. They very soon try to figure out your worth, your financial prospective, what you can mean to her. I suppose they have a lower margin for error. It is a harsher society, with more inequality, and it shows.

There's much truth in what Louis said. Also, I have the impression the russian girls a pretty much straight forward. Not so much tricking and stuff. I think the way she talks to you is a really good sign. Don't forget to *subtly* show her that you're ready to do her.

[Vuk]

There's much truth in what Louis said. Also, I have the impression the russian girls a pretty much straight forward. Not so much tricking and stuff. I think the way she talks to you is a really good sign. Don't forget to *subtly* show her that you're ready to do her.

Yes, that should be his top priority in his relationship...not...

[Centurio Nixalsverdrus]

Yes, that should be his top priority in his relationship...not...

The "good guys" tend to forget that.

[edyzmedieval]

There's much truth in what Louis said. Also, I have the impression the russian girls a pretty much straight forward. Not so much tricking and stuff. I think the way she talks to you is a really good sign. Don't forget to *subtly* show her that you're ready to do her.

Strike a balance over here. Much truth in what Louis said, and all girls want to get laid, but being all too eager ruins everything.

[Centurio Nixalsverdrus]

"being all to eager"?

I don't think that's a danger in this case. Also, I said subtly.

[Beskar]

The "good guys" tend to forget that.

One of the most amusing articles is on wikipedia -
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nice_guy

One of the best theories is that "nice guys" exhibit androgynous or sexless behaviour. The other is the "desire to please", along with the "obsessive", and have many "insecurities".

Here is it from a womans view -
http://www.heartless-bitches.com/ran...niceguys.shtml

[Husar]

This whole making fun of nice guys thing completely destroys my ego every time.

[Raz]

I'd rather be a nice guy than the polar opposite. I'd much rather be in the company of a maiden as a nice guy than in the absence of one being a total [use imaginative vulgarity here].

I envy you, I've had my eye on an Eastern European beauty myself (a beautiful Romanian more precisely), and I've known her for sometime now, but I struggle to get anything together. Anyway, I'm glad that it seems to be working out for Cowhead. Best wishes for the future of this relationship of yours!

[Beskar]

"Nice Guy" is basically the opposite to what it means. I think to put it correctly, being a "Good Guy" is the thing to be, not a "Nice Guy". The "Nice Guy" is some one who is obsessive, sees women as an object, talks about how the good looking woman always dates the good looking males (but they neglect the woman around their type near them) amongst other things.

This is the parable of how to be a "Good Guy" from a "Nice Guy" - http://www.heartless-bitches.com/ran...pineless.shtml

This is a post from a "self-confessed Nice Guy" which feedback comments - http://www.heartless-bitches.com/ran...-dilemma.shtml


It is a good read. It tells you the problems with the majority of the self-confessed 'Nice Guys' especially when some of them are not really that nice at all.

[Strike For The South]

lol by nice guy they mean you cater toward there whims, hoping it scores you points. the problem is dudes put women on a pedstal. remember they are just people and i agree the op needs to be a bit more bold. women like confidence and assertiveness not a romance that resembles there jr high days

which im not saying the op is doing but still dont be wishy washy. take everything your mother told you and forget it, feed the primal instincs

And if you falter who cares go out and meet another

[Cowhead418]

The last several posts have been quite amusing to read. I know all about the "Nice Guy" stuff, I'm not worried about that. In fact, we've already had the sex talk, and I suggested that we wait until we know each other better, because she was worried we were moving a little "too fast" already. I don't mind taking things a bit slow with her.

[Strike For The South]

The last several posts have been quite amusing to read. I know all about the "Nice Guy" stuff, I'm not worried about that. In fact, we've already had the sex talk, and I suggested that we wait until we know each other better, because she was worried we were moving a little "too fast" already. I don't mind taking things a bit slow with her.

she better be making you sammiches

[Beskar]

I wish I was there for the sex talk. "In Russia, we don't have birds and bees, we have bears and walrus!", "Wait.. your sex talk consists of Bears and Walrus?", "No, Silly! We have no bees or birds, only bear and walrus!"

I love the accent, especially with the 'Foriegn English'. Some reason, a foriegner with a nice accent saying imperfect English sounds far sexier than a native English speaking English correctly.