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a completely inoffensive name
02-03-2011, 01:01
Out of respect for her and my friend I will use fake names for them. But yeah I got myself a problem and I figure since people are willing to help out here, I could be serious for a moment and ask for advice.
So ever since I came to uni, I met these really two awesome people, this really smart girl "claire" and my now best friend "anthony". I really like this girl, but I didn't want to commit so soon for you know, obvious reasons...blah blah blah. We are all studying the same subject and this is where the problem is. Anthony is quite honestly much more talented than me, and he has a bit more of a popular reputation as well (he comes from a family that is kind of famous in the region). He has a bunch of girls who always try to chill with him which is cool but he doesn't care for any of them. The problem is that I am pretty sure Anthony also likes Claire and is going to ask her out pretty soon. I am also pretty sure she is going to say yes, :(
I would like to ask her out, but I must admit I am not exactly the smoothest around her. We have had a couple of large arguments about stupid ******** that doesn't really matter. So things are not exactly the best between us, she always seems to be interested back though when we don't fight. We have had a couple of cute moments together that I (being an idiot) didn't really capitalize on.
Will update this as it develops. Any advice though?
Hit the gym, lawyer up and delete your Facebook account. You already know this >_>
a completely inoffensive name
02-03-2011, 01:08
Hit the gym, lawyer up and delete your Facebook account. You already know this >_>
I have made 10 facebooks accounts and have deleted them all, ITS NOT WORKING!
But seriously, I don't really use facebook.
EDIT: Also, I am kind of fit already.
Huh. Well girls like confidence right? You just have to be more confident and expressive around her. Show off your skills in something that could impress her, like sport, funny tricks or music.
a completely inoffensive name
02-03-2011, 01:14
Huh. Well girls like confidence right? You just have to be more confident and expressive around her. Show off your skills in something that could impress her, like sport, funny tricks or music.
Yeah, I am always on my computer sooooo I will have to get back to you on the skills. I am not terrible at stuff, but you get what I am saying.
pevergreen
02-03-2011, 01:29
Can I just state that I love this thread, and that little conversation just there?
Great.
Ask 'Anthony' if he plans to. Then either don't, or do.
If yes, and its worth potentially breaking the friendship up, ask first.
Either beat him to the yes and potentially be a dog, or never ask if she says yes. She then becomes off limits for as long as you are friends with him.
Such is the law of men.
PershsNhpios
02-03-2011, 01:36
Show her the backroom... :wink3:
Rhyfelwyr
02-03-2011, 01:42
Friends with a girl? You're already in a situation foreign to me.
My worthless advice is to not mess about. Either ask her out or get over her. Keep things simple. :yes:
Megas Methuselah
02-03-2011, 02:19
Yeah, you're going to have to beat Anthony to her in popping the question (i.e. Asking her out for coffee. You do drink coffee, right? RIGHT?!). Chances are that it won't work, but that doesn't matter, because you don't strike me as the kind of guy that is willing to regret liking this girl but not doing anything about it for a year or two. So ask her. It's better being rejected than not knowing what could have happened. Why? Because this way you'll know that it simply wasn't meant to be. The world is like that sometimes, and you might like her now, but if she says no, then that means you are completely free and single to keep looking for a better girl. Trust me, there are better girls out there. Don't trip over this whole issue, and don't make it any bigger than it has to be.
Also, you're in college, and I'm willing to bet a hundred bucks that if you do start dating her, it will only last a few months. Don't get too attached, we don't want your little heart broken. It really hurts.
a completely inoffensive name
02-03-2011, 02:22
Just talked with Anthony, he was very nervous around me. I think he is going to ask her tomorrow.
Megas Methuselah
02-03-2011, 02:26
Phone her now! Carpe Diem.
Ask her if she wants to go for coffee tommorrow. Then tell her over the caffeine that you really... like... her. Don't be akward.
Reenk Roink
02-03-2011, 02:27
This guy is obviously too boss. Do not even try to stand in his way. When he's finished, content yourself with sloppy seconds.
Megas Methuselah
02-03-2011, 02:28
And don't get too attached, damnit!
Centurion1
02-03-2011, 02:30
who cares they wont last long likely and then they will break up and you get the rebound and she will be putty in your hands.
or they wont youget over it and you can be happy for your best friend.
PanzerJaeger
02-03-2011, 03:18
This guy is obviously too boss. Do not even try to stand in his way. When he's finished, content yourself with sloppy seconds.
:laugh4:
You've got to decide whether the chance to date her is worth your friendship with both of them.
pevergreen
02-03-2011, 05:23
This guy is obviously too boss. Do not even try to stand in his way. When he's finished, content yourself with sloppy seconds.
Eww.
Megas Methuselah
02-03-2011, 05:56
Eww.
Pever is turned on.
pevergreen
02-03-2011, 06:24
Pever is turned on.
Who?
And no.
Yoyoma1910
02-03-2011, 07:03
We have had a couple of large arguments about stupid ******** that doesn't really matter.
That's called sexual tension.
Yoyoma1910
02-03-2011, 07:07
Just talked with Anthony, he was very nervous around me. I think he is going to ask her tomorrow.
Nobody throws baby under the bus when I'm around! Get it!
Honestly though, that feeling your getting is probably just your self destruct mechanism going off. It's probably better to ignore it, since you're already fighting about stupid crap. If you end up in a relationship, that's all you'll probably end up doing.
Megas Methuselah
02-03-2011, 07:39
Who?
And no.
Yes, you are! You're hard, man, I can feel it!
You're hard, man, I can feel it!
What's your hand doing down there?
a completely inoffensive name
02-03-2011, 23:40
Ok, here is an update. I am a bit pissed off so don't give me infractions everywhere if I use PG-13 words.
Anthony isn't interested in Claire apparently. I am going to give you guys a small bit of info on my life (this is the only thing I will ever tell you guys about my personal life). I have a sister that is a year younger than me. Anthony wanted to come down and hang out with my family during thanksgiving and winter break, and he is pretty chill so he did. Apparently...he and my sister talked during Thanksgiving and started to get interested in each other. They have been pretty much together for a while, it just wasn't official so to speak. And he came to me today to tell me about this. I got pissed and told him to **** off. I should have seen it coming, after Thanksgiving my sister (who is planning on having the same major as I am) really wanted to go my uni, (she claimed it was because they have a great natural sciences division, which my uni does).
So now, I guess I have a free shot at asking Claire, but right now I am way to **** mad to do anything right now.
Seriously you guys, I want to punch Anthony in the face, what he did was super douchy in my opinion. Am I overreacting?
Prussian to the Iron
02-03-2011, 23:57
Ok, here is an update. I am a bit pissed off so don't give me infractions everywhere if I use PG-13 words.
Anthony isn't interested in Claire apparently. I am going to give you guys a small bit of info on my life (this is the only thing I will ever tell you guys about my personal life). I have a sister that is a year younger than me. Anthony wanted to come down and hang out with my family during thanksgiving and winter break, and he is pretty chill so he did. Apparently...he and my sister talked during Thanksgiving and started to get interested in each other. They have been pretty much together for a while, it just wasn't official so to speak. And he came to me today to tell me about this. I got pissed and told him to **** off. I should have seen it coming, after Thanksgiving my sister (who is planning on having the same major as I am) really wanted to go my uni, (she claimed it was because they have a great natural sciences division, which my uni does).
So now, I guess I have a free shot at asking Claire, but right now I am way to **** mad to do anything right now.
Seriously you guys, I want to punch Anthony in the face, what he did was super douchy in my opinion. Am I overreacting?
Is there something wrong with him dating your sister? I mean, I guess you being his friend know how he talks and acts, but TBH I think you should give your sis some credit. I wouldn't think its a big deal, but if you do I wouldn't blame you for it. I guess everyone kinda handles it differently right?
Anyway...I think it's best if I keep my mouth shut about the girl part, but does she know you like her? Ask her out for some place? In my experience, girls will sometimes find not-being-good-at-things very cute and funny, if you know how to play it right.
Megas Methuselah
02-04-2011, 00:11
Your sister must be a niiiiice chick. What's her measurements? Hook me up.
Rhyfelwyr
02-04-2011, 00:53
Your sister must be a niiiiice chick. What's her measurements? Hook me up.
He's not hooahguy you know...
Prussian to the Iron
02-04-2011, 01:27
He's not hooahguy you know...
:laugh4:
pevergreen
02-04-2011, 02:29
He's not hooahguy you know...
This kid has talent.
If you're protective, punch him. That also makes you an idiot, but hey.
If your sister is old enough to go to college, she is old enough to make her own decisions.
How would you feel if she tried to say who you can and can't hook up with?
Megas Methuselah
02-04-2011, 04:03
Man what college is this again i think its tiem fo a roadtrips
Seriously you guys, I want to punch Anthony in the face, what he did was super douchy in my opinion. Am I overreacting?
Well. I don't think it was "douchy" that he likes your sister, not telling you earlier was probably "douchy". Of what you have said about him he sounds like a decent guy, so isn't that better than some stranger who you don't know anything about going out with your sister?
If your sister is old enough to go to college, she is old enough to make her own decisions.
How would you feel if she tried to say who you can and can't hook up with?
THIS
I don't think you should be upset just think about it this way how cool would it be if your best friend became your brother in law that way you guys could chill all the time and your wives can't get pissed because you guys are family.
pevergreen
02-04-2011, 05:55
Well. I don't think it was "douchy" that he likes your sister, not telling you earlier was probably "douchy". Of what you have said about him he sounds like a decent guy, so isn't that better than some stranger who you don't know anything about going out with your sister?
Agreed. Speaking as a guy who has gone after a friend's younger sister, before I even commenced talking to her, I asked him if it was ok if I did, then when it started leading somewhere, I asked if he was ok with it.
He should have told you earlier, but he told you now. You must forgive him, otherwise you are not his mate.
However, if he does something to emotionally or physically hurt your sister, then hes dead.
a completely inoffensive name
02-04-2011, 20:06
Final update: Good News Everyone!
I sacked up and asked her out and she said yes! Which is good because I was uncertain about whether or not she was into gingers. So far it has been really awesome.
Also, I have decided that it's ok for my best friend to be dating my little sister, because I know that he is an alright guy and wouldn't ever harm her in any way. She seems really happy as well.
Oh, and one more good piece of information,
"Anthony" killed Voldemort and now we can all live safely!
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Rhyfelwyr
02-04-2011, 23:10
ACIN is a fellow ginger?!?!
Fisherking
02-04-2011, 23:25
ACIN is a fellow ginger?!?!
And you are still contagious! See you gave it to ACIN...
pevergreen
02-05-2011, 12:30
And you are still contagious! See you gave it to ACIN...
Careful, if you go around quoting his posts like that, you might catch it...
The Stranger
02-05-2011, 17:19
by god, spend half the time you spend on here just being around her, she will be your girlfriend in no time.
He said: 'Son, I can give you a word of advice. Next time you talk to her, listen to what she says, says about her and not just to what she says or says about you.'
Togakure
02-05-2011, 21:05
... listen to what she says, says about her and not just to what she says or says about you.'
Ooo ... ta-ta-tow!! :yes:
The Stranger
02-05-2011, 21:58
what does that mean? XD
You guys srsly. Srsly u guise.
Togakure
02-05-2011, 22:06
what does that mean? XD
When I was a teen, my best friend used to say that when someone made a really good point. Like in the old Batman show: "Pow!" "Bam!" "Ta-ta-Tow!"
The Stranger
02-05-2011, 22:25
haha ok :P
Strike For The South
02-05-2011, 23:18
hmmmm
a completely inoffensive name
02-06-2011, 01:42
Did any of you open the spoiler?
Rhyfelwyr
02-06-2011, 02:24
Yeah but I didn't get the Harry Potter reference, haven't even seen the last few films...
PershsNhpios
02-06-2011, 02:41
Being the third thread on this nonsense, and being a successful venture thanks to these replies, I think the least A.C.I.N. could do is provide us with a picture of the quarry.
There is an internet saying to that effect...
a completely inoffensive name
02-06-2011, 02:57
:daisy:, I was trolling all of you. This was all fake, I am :daisy: ron weasly from the harry potter series.
This is fail on so many levels.
PershsNhpios
02-06-2011, 04:39
Yes, this was known from the start, in fact, we were just trolling you the entire time.
a completely inoffensive name
02-06-2011, 04:45
Next thread is going to be me talking about killing myself, this was the worst ******* outcome.
What gave it away?
EDIT: Jk, don't pull that crap on me Glenn. If anyone knew, it was probably only you.
Togakure
02-06-2011, 05:01
Ok, enough. I think you should reconsider opening threads for the sole sake of trolling. This thread is closed.
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