Women? How much suceuss do you have with the ladies? I myself actually have small sucess, but nothing to eat Cashews and Milk over though sadly.
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Women? How much suceuss do you have with the ladies? I myself actually have small sucess, but nothing to eat Cashews and Milk over though sadly.
Not really tried for over 3 years.
Not ready.
Give everyone alcohol.
Many a lady have lowered there standards when the coco rum comes to the party
Does this make me a bad person?
Yes
Do I care?
No
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Originally Posted by Strike For The South
Remind me to give you a million dollars if I hit the lottery.
If by success you mean getting zoned, then yes. More often than not. Its lame.
Sluts.Quote:
Originally Posted by Veho Nex
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Originally Posted by Strike For The South
Are you saying I pursue them?
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Originally Posted by Strike For The South
Dirty women.
I fail at this. Despite having no life, numerous opportunities have still presented themselves to me without any effort of my own, and I still can't do it.
Same here Rhy. Half the time I chicken out, and the times I do man up (more then you think), they not interested. So it's like, whatever.
Move with grace! Move with confidence! Move with...
yeah, you probably should not listen to me...
Yeah.Quote:
Originally Posted by Strike For The South
Hey. Are we man-whores?
I am a bit of a chick-magnet I'm the one that gets aproached, only flirt back and it usually stays at that unless I actually like them, never go for them myself it's not in my nature to do so. If I would see the love of my life I would be clueless on how to aproach her.
I'm sort of the same way. I once said, "hey, how's it going?" to a girl in my class, and apparently that was enough. But as for hitting on a girl, that's about all that I know.Quote:
Originally Posted by Fragony
Depends what role you need to play within the cultural norm. I find myself most successful if I play the short, hairy, funny guy. Whereas I couldn't play the large, muscular, surfer guy which my friend plays very (frustratingly) well. At the same time I couldn't play the intellectual or the sensitive guy.
Also
LOLQuote:
Originally Posted by Strike For The South
well, still running arround chasing girls? I bet you are frustated, actually, here is some alternatives
1) if you have a girl that was your best friend... try to spend more time with her. Love grows from closeness.... if you don't have any, try to become friends with them, and love will comes naturally
2) do heavy bodybuilding until you got body like greek gods, chicks will come afterwards
3) go to church, and pray endlessly in two or three days, attend every worship and prayer events, and become a very pious and religious man, I can bet some girls will start to see something in you. (if you don't get some sucess, maybe your life had another purpose than chasing girls arround... )
4) directly speak to your parents and ask to get a marriage arrangements (if you are soo frustated by the prospect of not having any girl). But necer complain if they gave you the fat chubby one...
5) ask for a mail order bride from *****
actually, a girl is reading all of this, and she said "pity for warman"
I don't really have any success, but I think that's mostly cause I don't really try. Hitting on girls I barely know isn't really my style anyway.
This has been my approach with this one girl for a while. I think after two years, I might be getting close, but I don't know for sure.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cute Wolf
Welcome to:Quote:
Originally Posted by Chuchip
The Friend Zone.
http://www.thesixthnonsense.com/wp-c...riend-zone.jpg
We are still menQuote:
Originally Posted by Megas Methuselah
It's a bit of a curse to be atractive to the other gender
This.Quote:
Originally Posted by Strike For The South
No. No. NO! NO! NO! NO! NO!Quote:
Originally Posted by Cute Wolf
Don't change yourself for anyone other than yourself. Otherwise your priorities will be all wrong.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cute Wolf
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Originally Posted by Psychonaut
I would listen to him. Friendships are nice and all, but once she sees you as a friend it will almsot never work out to be anything more that that. And, seeing as how love through closeness is more true for males than females, you will only depress yourself.
It's not that she see's you as a "friend", it's that she sees this: a guy with low self-esteem and no confidence who doesn't back himself enough to take a chance and isn't man enough to go out and "take what he wants". Guys who take that approach are desperate, and to quote a good friend of mine: "Desperation is the least attractive quality a man can have".Quote:
Originally Posted by Motep
Confidence and backing yourself is what works. That and having realistic expectations, relationships are transactive. Don't expect to get a premium product if your offering is substandard.
For the second time, do not listen to me. Listen to this guyQuote:
Originally Posted by Psychonaut
Strike hard, Strike fast, be boldQuote:
Originally Posted by Motep
is my motto. I'm trying to figure out if it works to much for me that it causes me to fail or what. :laugh4:
Ummm..... You tell me. :dizzy2:Quote:
Originally Posted by Megas Methuselah
Your advice Mr.Chick man?Quote:
Originally Posted by Fragony
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Originally Posted by Cute Wolf
No, they would just slap me with a restraining order. :laugh4:
In my absence Psychonaut is your king.
Agreed, Girls go for the ass and screw over the nice guy is a misnomer. Girls go for the guy who knows what he wants and doesn't give a damn what anyone else thinks, esp. when it comes to her.Quote:
It's not that she see's you as a "friend", it's that she sees this: a guy with low self-esteem and no confidence who doesn't back himself enough to take a chance and isn't man enough to go out and "take what he wants". Guys who take that approach are desperate, and to quote a good friend of mine: "Desperation is the least attractive quality a man can have".
are you talking only looks? b/c I would have to disagree. Now a good body goes a long way but a man can eaisly overcome being uglyQuote:
Confidence and backing yourself is what works. That and having realistic expectations, relationships are transactive. Don't expect to get a premium product if your offering is substandard.
I'm talking about everything combined, looks+attitude+personality+etc. A product is more than its packaging, etc.Quote:
Originally Posted by Strike For The South
true, but a man can be defficent in any one of those things save confiedence, if you walk around like you have no balls, ladies will treat you as suchQuote:
Originally Posted by Psychonaut
Here, Warman, learn from the master:
http://tampa.craigslist.org/pnl/mis/2081287206.html
CR
Or they'll cross the street.Quote:
Originally Posted by Strike For The South