Here we go again for the second time!

Out of respect for her and my friend I will use fake names for them. But yeah I got myself a problem and I figure since people are willing to help out here, I could be serious for a moment and ask for advice.

So ever since I came to uni, I met these really two awesome people, this really smart girl "claire" and my now best friend "anthony". I really like this girl, but I didn't want to commit so soon for you know, obvious reasons...blah blah blah. We are all studying the same subject and this is where the problem is. Anthony is quite honestly much more talented than me, and he has a bit more of a popular reputation as well (he comes from a family that is kind of famous in the region). He has a bunch of girls who always try to chill with him which is cool but he doesn't care for any of them. The problem is that I am pretty sure Anthony also likes Claire and is going to ask her out pretty soon. I am also pretty sure she is going to say yes, :(

I would like to ask her out, but I must admit I am not exactly the smoothest around her. We have had a couple of large arguments about stupid ******** that doesn't really matter. So things are not exactly the best between us, she always seems to be interested back though when we don't fight. We have had a couple of cute moments together that I (being an idiot) didn't really capitalize on.

Will update this as it develops. Any advice though?

Hit the gym, lawyer up and delete your Facebook account. You already know this >_>

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Hit the gym, lawyer up and delete your Facebook account. You already know this >_>

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I have made 10 facebooks accounts and have deleted them all, ITS NOT WORKING!

But seriously, I don't really use facebook.

EDIT: Also, I am kind of fit already.

Huh. Well girls like confidence right? You just have to be more confident and expressive around her. Show off your skills in something that could impress her, like sport, funny tricks or music.

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Huh. Well girls like confidence right? You just have to be more confident and expressive around her. Show off your skills in something that could impress her, like sport, funny tricks or music.

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Yeah, I am always on my computer sooooo I will have to get back to you on the skills. I am not terrible at stuff, but you get what I am saying.

Can I just state that I love this thread, and that little conversation just there?

Great.

Ask 'Anthony' if he plans to. Then either don't, or do.

If yes, and its worth potentially breaking the friendship up, ask first.

Either beat him to the yes and potentially be a dog, or never ask if she says yes. She then becomes off limits for as long as you are friends with him.

Such is the law of men.

Show her the backroom... :wink3:

Friends with a girl? You're already in a situation foreign to me.

My worthless advice is to not mess about. Either ask her out or get over her. Keep things simple. :yes:

Yeah, you're going to have to beat Anthony to her in popping the question (i.e. Asking her out for coffee. You do drink coffee, right? RIGHT?!). Chances are that it won't work, but that doesn't matter, because you don't strike me as the kind of guy that is willing to regret liking this girl but not doing anything about it for a year or two. So ask her. It's better being rejected than not knowing what could have happened. Why? Because this way you'll know that it simply wasn't meant to be. The world is like that sometimes, and you might like her now, but if she says no, then that means you are completely free and single to keep looking for a better girl. Trust me, there are better girls out there. Don't trip over this whole issue, and don't make it any bigger than it has to be.

Also, you're in college, and I'm willing to bet a hundred bucks that if you do start dating her, it will only last a few months. Don't get too attached, we don't want your little heart broken. It really hurts.

Just talked with Anthony, he was very nervous around me. I think he is going to ask her tomorrow.

Phone her now! Carpe Diem.

Ask her if she wants to go for coffee tommorrow. Then tell her over the caffeine that you really... like... her. Don't be akward.

This guy is obviously too boss. Do not even try to stand in his way. When he's finished, content yourself with sloppy seconds.

And don't get too attached, damnit!

who cares they wont last long likely and then they will break up and you get the rebound and she will be putty in your hands.

or they wont youget over it and you can be happy for your best friend.

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This guy is obviously too boss. Do not even try to stand in his way. When he's finished, content yourself with sloppy seconds.

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You've got to decide whether the chance to date her is worth your friendship with both of them.

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This guy is obviously too boss. Do not even try to stand in his way. When he's finished, content yourself with sloppy seconds.

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Eww.

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Eww.

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Pever is turned on.

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Pever is turned on.

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Who?

And no.

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We have had a couple of large arguments about stupid ******** that doesn't really matter.

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That's called sexual tension.

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Just talked with Anthony, he was very nervous around me. I think he is going to ask her tomorrow.

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Nobody throws baby under the bus when I'm around! Get it!





Honestly though, that feeling your getting is probably just your self destruct mechanism going off. It's probably better to ignore it, since you're already fighting about stupid crap. If you end up in a relationship, that's all you'll probably end up doing.

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Who?

And no.

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Yes, you are! You're hard, man, I can feel it!

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You're hard, man, I can feel it!

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What's your hand doing down there?

Ok, here is an update. I am a bit pissed off so don't give me infractions everywhere if I use PG-13 words.

Anthony isn't interested in Claire apparently. I am going to give you guys a small bit of info on my life (this is the only thing I will ever tell you guys about my personal life). I have a sister that is a year younger than me. Anthony wanted to come down and hang out with my family during thanksgiving and winter break, and he is pretty chill so he did. Apparently...he and my sister talked during Thanksgiving and started to get interested in each other. They have been pretty much together for a while, it just wasn't official so to speak. And he came to me today to tell me about this. I got pissed and told him to **** off. I should have seen it coming, after Thanksgiving my sister (who is planning on having the same major as I am) really wanted to go my uni, (she claimed it was because they have a great natural sciences division, which my uni does).

So now, I guess I have a free shot at asking Claire, but right now I am way to **** mad to do anything right now.

Seriously you guys, I want to punch Anthony in the face, what he did was super douchy in my opinion. Am I overreacting?

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Ok, here is an update. I am a bit pissed off so don't give me infractions everywhere if I use PG-13 words.

Anthony isn't interested in Claire apparently. I am going to give you guys a small bit of info on my life (this is the only thing I will ever tell you guys about my personal life). I have a sister that is a year younger than me. Anthony wanted to come down and hang out with my family during thanksgiving and winter break, and he is pretty chill so he did. Apparently...he and my sister talked during Thanksgiving and started to get interested in each other. They have been pretty much together for a while, it just wasn't official so to speak. And he came to me today to tell me about this. I got pissed and told him to **** off. I should have seen it coming, after Thanksgiving my sister (who is planning on having the same major as I am) really wanted to go my uni, (she claimed it was because they have a great natural sciences division, which my uni does).

So now, I guess I have a free shot at asking Claire, but right now I am way to **** mad to do anything right now.

Seriously you guys, I want to punch Anthony in the face, what he did was super douchy in my opinion. Am I overreacting?

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Is there something wrong with him dating your sister? I mean, I guess you being his friend know how he talks and acts, but TBH I think you should give your sis some credit. I wouldn't think its a big deal, but if you do I wouldn't blame you for it. I guess everyone kinda handles it differently right?

Anyway...I think it's best if I keep my mouth shut about the girl part, but does she know you like her? Ask her out for some place? In my experience, girls will sometimes find not-being-good-at-things very cute and funny, if you know how to play it right.

Your sister must be a niiiiice chick. What's her measurements? Hook me up.

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Your sister must be a niiiiice chick. What's her measurements? Hook me up.

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He's not hooahguy you know...

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He's not hooahguy you know...

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:laugh4:

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He's not hooahguy you know...

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This kid has talent.

If you're protective, punch him. That also makes you an idiot, but hey.

If your sister is old enough to go to college, she is old enough to make her own decisions.

How would you feel if she tried to say who you can and can't hook up with?

Man what college is this again i think its tiem fo a roadtrips

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Seriously you guys, I want to punch Anthony in the face, what he did was super douchy in my opinion. Am I overreacting?

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Well. I don't think it was "douchy" that he likes your sister, not telling you earlier was probably "douchy". Of what you have said about him he sounds like a decent guy, so isn't that better than some stranger who you don't know anything about going out with your sister?

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If your sister is old enough to go to college, she is old enough to make her own decisions.

How would you feel if she tried to say who you can and can't hook up with?

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THIS