So apparently if there is a bunch of people here with low Self-Confidence with the ladies and such. So lets bounce ideas off of one another.
Who wants to go first? :balloon2:
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So apparently if there is a bunch of people here with low Self-Confidence with the ladies and such. So lets bounce ideas off of one another.
Who wants to go first? :balloon2:
If you cater to what you think others want you to be, you will never have self confidence
Just do you and shake the haters
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+1for STFS. Be a Hungarian Hussar (Like me!!!!). Don't care what anyone thinks. :balloon2::balloon2::balloon2::balloon2:Quote:
Originally Posted by Strike For The South
Stop asking for advice on internet forums.
Pwnt.
Heres a better idea.
Stop posting altogether.
What's with the animosity above?
Anyway, I echo Strike's advice, you be calm and be yourself, and you can't really go wrong. Don't worry about being rejected, because it will happen to everyone at some point.
A lot of the time these people that seem like players in fact only really get one acceptance for every 10 rejections.
Why does it always come back to women with you?Quote:
Originally Posted by Rhyfelwyr
idk, early mid-life crisis?Quote:
Originally Posted by Strike For The South
Wait, no... the OP specifically talked about women, I knew I posted that for a reason.
I could say something extremely cliche' so that's exactly what I'm going to do.
Words and phrases like "self-confidence" are just that, they don't really don't mean anything if you don't know what it is. Get out of the house, do things you like (that don't involve the computer), find meaning in your existence, do something to promote that meaningfulness with others who share that desire, and everything else will work itself out.
WHY YOU GOTTA BE LIKE THAT SFTS?Quote:
Originally Posted by Strike For The South
~:mecry:Quote:
Originally Posted by Csargo
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Originally Posted by pevergreen
That's sounds good advice for everyone Pever. :balloon2:
What animosity?Quote:
Originally Posted by Rhyfelwyr
No sense in being a player. Besides, once the girl finds out she being played, she just going to ditch you and you going to have to try all over again.
:yes:Quote:
Originally Posted by Wakizashi
People are stupid. Ignore them and do whatever the :daisy: you feel like.
Wear clothes you feel comfortable with. Everybody is insure about him/her-self, the ones claiming they aren't probably all the more.
I just wear my leather jacket (real one) and blue jeans and an ice shirt and colonge and that's it. I go in fancy enough because I don't want to look like a bum (like a lot of my fellow students look like they came out of a drug house). I don't care what anyone thinks of me at this point.
I just chill out and look relaxed. You don't even have to move a muscle.
stop being a *****
Finding confidence is about realising that the opinions other people have about you don't really matter; if they don't like you, who cares? Is it really that big a deal?
Why should you tailor yourself to their requirements? Wear the clothes you like, listen to the music you enjoy and live life however you want... it's their loss, not yours!
Don't be a hater, man. I like this kid, and I like it when people take advantage of the frontroom's tome of combined knowledge.Quote:
Originally Posted by pevergreen
But when a girl looks at me, and smiles and doesn't look away... Ooooooh, I love it when that happens.
Hey I might need some advice too.
Not too concerned about womens but I do want to raise my confidence.
The main problem seems to be my horrible fashion sense and weak looking body (yet fat on my stomach)
You and me both buddy :sad:Quote:
Originally Posted by Beefy187
Situps. Crunches. Barbells.
Lazy. You.
Not debating that.Quote:
Originally Posted by Megas Methuselah
Oh. Ok, then.Quote:
Originally Posted by pevergreen
Peace.
Do it, and do it well. Dont be afraid of opinions. It worksQuote:
Originally Posted by miotas
Hit the lawyer, delete your gym and facebook up.
Done all that. Main problem seems to be slow effects, leading to lack of will to continueQuote:
Originally Posted by Megas Methuselah
Follow my advice.Quote:
Originally Posted by Beefy187
@ ACIN
What would you advice this skinny chubby fellow?